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I have a boyfriend problem…

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I have gotten many suggestions on this one problem… but here it is.. my boyfriend within the past few weeks has been acting stangely….i would call him and start small talk.. i guess you would say… but when i get to the part when can we see each other .. he always has another call or has to go.. or something like that… and within the past few weeks.. he hasnt call me not once… and he is always putting his “friends” before us.. it is really started bothering me …. what should i do… should i talk to him about it or should i just call it off… i would like your opinions on this… thank you very much..

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J 7 offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Don’t just call it of, because that could be a surprise to him and hurt his feeling. He may not release he’s not being such a good bf to you and it may be that he’s really relaxed about the situation so is perhaps taking advantage.

Talk t him, tell him you don’t want to be taken for granted.

See how he feels about the relationship too.

Then it may be bestto call it off, but you don’t know what he’s thinking yet.

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Abenzrit offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

I would say you’re not his girl-friend anymore. Simple

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1 month, 3 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

He’s giving you the brush-off, so give him the big send-off! By the way, some people do things like that just to see how it affects other people!

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countrygirl offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 58 minutes after post)

If it were me I would not call him or anything. I think that is probably what he may be wanting is an easy good by. If you don’t call or anything and if he does want to see you he will call and ask what’s going on since you haven’t called. If he does be sure and tell him that that phone works both ways. I really think that he is trying to brush you off and trying to get you maybe to where you’ll just leave him alone and vice versa and it be over with. Don’t chase him he’s not worth it.

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♥~Andrea~♥ offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (11 hours, 30 minutes after post)

well see… we’ve been talking i guess you would say… and it started like a few weeks back… and i know he needs friends.. heck i do too.. but he spends way way too much time with them… every weekend they get together… let me just put it this way… if he was dating anyone… i would say it was his friends… he gets to see his friends at school.. on the weekend… and possible on weekdays… me however is a totally different story.. we see each other whenever he feels like it.. which is about every 2 to 3 months…

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demongaaragirl2 offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Ortonville, MI, US | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (19 hours, 13 minutes after post)

Well friends are very important

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CALi-GiRL offline Verified User (2 weeks, 4 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

You should talk to him &&
Then think about out to see if you should call it
Off…..i just went through this && it was all
A misunderstanding….

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neravar4239 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Lehigh Acres, FL, US | 1 week, 5 days ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

andrea just dont worry about him, if he keeps switching to another call while he talks with you, then either he has somthing to hide, he just doesnt want to talk to you, or he is trying do something behind your back. confront him about it and make sure he listens to you, because he needs to listen to you. make sure that you find out his feelings for you and how he wants to continue the relationship with you.

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