Love help: My girlfriend loves me, however I am not sure whether i love her or love her as much as she loves me. - Help.com

Hello anonymous, I’m also in the same situation with my bf of 2.5 years.
I’m also looking for advice on what to do…

Trust me. Don’t settle YOU”LL REGRET IT LATER. END UP IN A LOVELESS MARRIAGE don’t waste you life. No its not ALL about love but it is about long term happiness. Do you enjoy her– and is she going to satisfy you sexually for years to come. AND this is your first relationship you are still exploring yourself and what you want. but do talk to her and hopefully she will understand. If shes not the undertsanding type make her break up with you somehow.

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if you love something let it go , and if it returns then it was ment to be , if not then it wasnt meant to be.

I think you should take a break from this relationship for 2 weeks or so and see how you feel without her

I’m in the same situation. What I’m doing is creating a situation where we cant be together. I’ve joined the air force. I have to move away for 30 weeks to do officer training and this will break us up for sure. So really its the circumstances that broke us up.

hey jUst tell what you think to your girl. She might understand. if not, she might think you don’t love her. admiting that you’re not financially welloff may hurt your dignity a little bit. But you can do soemthing like this. tell her that you love her and care about her. but what she wants is too much from you. you need your own life a little bit. I think she ‘ll understand. and do tell her that you love her

Hello, to both of you. just like to say i’m in the same boat, in a relationship which i’m not sure i want to be in anymore, as i feel i’m getting further and further away and shes always telling me she loves me and everything like that but then as soon as i’ve got my back turned she just goes and flirts around with other guys everytime. i have spoke to her about it but she stills just pushes me. So please could you try and help me with what i should do.

aright heres the thing guys. i am also in the same boat. And i admit yeh i came here for help. But after reading these comments ive realised we can only help areselves. Sure take advice from people but understand that everyone is different and reacts differently to different circumstances. My girlfriend thinks the world of me… Yeh im flatterd and i used to see her in the same way aswell. Now it feels like this relationship will carry on forever and im not sure i can see myself in that position.we used to talk about getting married and we would chat about how are lives would be years from then. And i wanted that at the time. But now i dont. I have big dreams and i have these visions of a dream girl who i instantly fall in love with. Its so hard for me to understand what to do because i think so much of my girlfriend and i would hate to see her come to any harm and it also hurts to think of her with someone else. I know i love her and i am very protective over her but i dont know what kind of love it is anymore. The road ahead of me is a tough one. I need to figure out what ‘true love’ feels like and hopefully sort everything out. We have are problems just like every other couple but i can tell you shes a fantastic girl. I wish you all the best with whatever you decide to do and i hope everything works out great for all who are in the same situation.

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i am in the same situation… :/ it sucks. we have been dating for about nine months now and we are both seniors in high school. we are both going to colleges about an hour away from eachother. I just have so much going on… ap exams, work, college, friends, life… i feel like i have so much to do but she could be holding me back. like some previous posts said, she will get mad at me if we dont hang out… i have to be around her almost everyday and its taking its toll. please help… advice… idk if i love her anymore. she is crazy in love with me and says im the best thing thats ever happend to her. shes a nice girl but i cant see her in pain… i guess im afraid to break it off… but i dont know how much more i can take.

Am also in the situation, my girlfriend loves so much, she cares much, she buy all sorts of things to show me that she always think about me. we have been together 1 year and 3 months now, but I don’t have feelings for her and really don’t know if I love her and I want to spend my whole with her. it really sucks because I feel like I can’t do anything to end this relationship, but just keep on pretending!

I’m 41. Ive been in three relationships so far including one divorse.
In my opinion, you need space. She is smothering you. You’re young and you should go explore. Don’t be tied down by a controling person. Separate from her. While you are separated, communicate with her your feelings. But don’t go back to her. Go and do other things. Hang out with friends. Mingle. If she doesn’t like it, tough. She doesn’t own you. She wants to though.

Women are pretty selfish people. They are good at acting in the begining of a relationship. Then change on you later. Then you feel stuck with a person whom you don’t know anymore.

Go. Explore. Your free.

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ya man dont waste your time with this girl, controlling girls are really bad and cause a lot of stress…you deserve to be trusted and to be with someone that will give you space you need. You are still a young guy and should not be restricted from hanging out with your frieds, do yourself a favour and get out of this relationship, there are a ton of girls out there that will allow you the space you need and that will have a life of their own. I think you are confusing her “controlling behaviour” for love, when you love someone you are supposed to give that person space to make them happy. You had a life before you met her, and you should still have a life seperate from her when you are dating as well.

I am in the exact same position. Girlfriend loves me like mad and I really like her and enjoy her, but she is smothering me. I am manning up and telling her tomorrow that I need a break for awhile. I’m sure she’s going to be devestated and I’m already nervous about it….but I think it will be better for both of us in the long run….i’m hoping she’ll mature and we can get back together some day down the road…otherwise it just wasn’t meant to be.

Don’t break up with her over some ideological ********. Tell her you need a little more space and start meeting new women, to see if there is anything out there for you. You might just be depressed or bored with the relationship, and things may get better after you send this clear message that your relationship isn’t rock solid. If you start something new be sure to tell her, I am not suggesting you have an affair, but honestly she is going to get hurt either way, so at least do some research into what you want in a partner.