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I gave her everything …
she gave me hope for something better but it seems that she does not care at all..
Well it all started around January of 2007 where I asked a girl to date, so we went out but she told me that she has a relationship with a guy who is far away and she does not yet what to do… So I gave her time to think, and after one week she told me that she likes me and she wants to have something with me. So we met again and she told me that she wants to be with me and I wanted so. We gave some kisses but after that for sometime we lost again. (I have to say that we are still in the last year of high school so in a few day we are giving serious exams in order to enter the university so I did not pressured her for anything because I knew it was difficult to handle a relationship especially those months) During the time we gave our first kiss and told me that she wants to be with me like I did, I asked her if she ended her previously relationship and she told me yes. After 15 days we were talking via text messages and she told me that she is sad because she JUST broke up with her boyfriend. We arranged a date where she told me that HE told her to break up. I did not pay attention and I asked her that I want to be with her in a relationship and again she told me yes. But after the date, again she didn’t give any sign of interest for a date or something else. Also she canceled some dates we arranged. We moved on and again for 3rd time we made out during a school party. After that I was determined that there was not going to be something better like a real relationship. But after some days I left for a trip and she send me a text message telling me that she thinks of me wherever I am. I was so happy to hear from her… So I bought her some presents from the place I visited ( I also had bought her a present during Valentine) and when I came back I gave it to her and then she left for a trip. When she came back she gave me a gift and all seem to be nice and good.. After 1-2 weeks she had her birthday. I was the first person to send her a text message with wishes about her birthday, and I also bought a her gift and a birthday cake with which I made her a surprise while she was in class. She thanked me so much for everything but again for the rest of the time she wasn’t giving any sign of interest. Before 3-4 days she changed her number and until know she hasn’t give it me or tell me anything about that. So I am very sad and unhappy. I gave her everything. I tried to show her how much I love her all the time. I don’t know why she acts to me like that. I don’t know what to do. I love her so much. All the girls I know, recognized that I have done so much for her and that she is so lucky, even her friends. But she doesn’t seem to appreciate really anything. And she doesn’t give me any sign of real interest. I don’t know what to do… If she is not interested in me so why she told me that she thinks of me? why she asked for a photo of me (after the trip)? why she gave me hope? why 3 times she told me that she wants to be in a relationship with me and after that she did not do anything? why she hasn’t still give me her new phone number while I have done SO many things for her?
What can I do in order to win her? Does she act like that only because of the upcoming examinations or she plays with me ?
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