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Well I can only tell what I would like, and thats someting like a dinner, but then mke something special ot of it, and end the gift with some Small Jewelery or Lingery

You can never go wrong with nice jewlery :)

But if you’re leary about buying jewlery, you might consider looking into spa’s in your area. Maybe you could get her a nice day trip to a spa and a massage?

Well if you want it to be special it needs to be something out of the ordinary and something personal. You know her best so you know what she is interested in or likes. But like i said, i always find personal gifts are recieved the best.

For example A girl i knew who loved music i bought a guitar and I named a star after one that liked astronomy. Does she have any big interests or things she likes to do. If not i would go with some tastefull jewlery or specail trip or night out like previously suggested.

Well howabout.

You buy strawberries and champagne (or non-alcoholic sparkling wine if you dont drink) a beautiful red rose, pack some foods that can be nibbled - finger dishes 9remember napkins). A beautiful big rug, maybe also a battery radio for background music and then pack it all into the boot of the car (oh yes and a scented candle in case it gets dark).

Now think of the most romantic quite, beutiful place that you can find near you and whisk her off to lie oon the rug and eat little luxuries and talk about the beautiful 11 years you have shared. That might be the time to give her a little keepsake, like a beuatiful little carved angel or a locket with pictures of the children you have made.

Oh that sounds fine to me.

If you want to wooo her, make a photo montage of important pictures of your lives together with your songs playing…. give it to her on a DVD or pop it in for a “movie” go to www.onetruemedia.com to make one. You could really make a romantic night of it… Send her a formal invitation for a romantic dinner and movie. Make her a wonderul dinner, have some champange and strawberries available and pop the “movie” in. Then give her a little jewelry such as an anniversary bracelet and roses.

I would LOVE this. If only my hubby would be this clever.

Sorry about the spelling seeuseeme - I’m smoking and typing again

Oh mas1s you are such the romantic…. what aren’t you good at???

Giving up smoking - rstarzboxer

Those were some brillant suggestions, but do guys really do that stuff? Serious question.

No, guys don’t really do that stuff….it’s just what we WISH they would do ;)

If guys did more of that stuff (and girls too) relationships would be a lot more fun. What’s not to like - the one you love put in some effort, actual thought. We all want to be cherished just not good at asking fot it. Go on seeuseeme, make her day. Good luck

Yes that1salvagegu some guys do…. Or tho i can only rally speak for myslef….. cant say i have dated any guys :P

Wow, maybe I just pick the wrong guys. LOL I think I’d have a heart attack if my man did anything like that. Heck, I’m lucky if he remembers to bring the dish soap home. lmao

Ummm….you could also plant a tree and tell her that it is “Our tree” and it grows each day just as your love grows for her each day. Something like that, tell her that tree will grow old together with you…come up with something romantic…

You could also get her a past-present-future ring and come up with some sappy saying…

Gosh, why can’t my husband come up with ANY of this??????

lmao
Gosh, why can’t my husband come up with ANY of this??????

lol

Okiii !
goood luckeyyy !

:)

http://www.onetruemedia.com/otm_site/…

Here is a link to a cute montage of a baby….do something like this but about you and your wife….

good luck

Good luck and please do not leave me in suspense…I want to know that it is “Possible” for a husband to do something like this, then mine will have NO excuses. Let us know what you do and how it goes!

NO, NO , NO!!!! Your suppost to “DO” something for her “With” her….. not just get her things. Be creative and make is special!

Yes, take her to a grassy area under the stars or something…it will be romantic and that’s what women want!

I dont think this is meant in a creapy way.

I really dont know how to respond to this.

I dont know how he meant this post to be.
To me it seems he feels that communication with his wife is not going well.
Is it ok if I invite him, so he can respond and clarify it more to us ?

Or maybe make a shout ?

seeuseeme wrote:

SoulRising wrote:
seeuseeme 109 #…
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Thank you for posting under your own nick-name. I had a few post hidden because they were under anon and an unverified user, just hope it was not you. If you had to make a point I would have preferred if you had sent invites from here to the original post rather than pasting them here, so people would have been able to read the whole previous thread and followed what lead to me to write what I wrote.

SoulRising wrote:
Why don’t you try being a husband instead of a creep?

I was trying to be, that is the reason I am asking for suggestions here, I have already have had 10 previous ones and I have done the best that I could with celebrating.

annlovestars wrote:
To me it seems he feels that communication with his wife is not going well.

Thanks. Please read my response to rstarzboxer, maybe it verifies what you have written.

rstarzboxer wrote:
Well seeuseeme after reading more on you, I can see we were all blind sided by your so called love for your wife.

Had I just wanted to blind-side I would have posted either one as anon and you or for that matter anybody else would not have known any better.

rstarzboxer wrote:
You ARE just a creep, ugh….I feel sorry for your wife and hope she sends you packing.

I can’t help with your or anybody’s opinions. Please read something that I had written before and after the post in question that needed to have been pointed out to, too.
http://help.com/post/154943-i-just-ca…
http://help.com/post/154943-i-just-ca…

Nothing much I can say except answer.

I believe it is your wife who needs the help: love, sincerity, and respect of a good honest man. Your justification for misguided deeds does nothing for her or you.

seeuseeme wrote:

SoulRising wrote:
seeuseeme 109 #…
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Thank you for posting under your own nick-name. I had a few post hidden because they were under anon and an unverified user, just hope it was not you. If you had to make a point I would have preferred if you had sent invites from here to the original post rather than pasting them here, so people would have been able to read the whole previous thread and followed what lead to me to write what I wrote.

SoulRising wrote:
Why don’t you try being a husband instead of a creep?

I was trying to be, that is the reason I am asking for suggestions here, I have already have had 10 previous ones and I have done the best that I could with celebrating.

annlovestars wrote:
To me it seems he feels that communication with his wife is not going well.

Thanks. Please read my response to rstarzboxer, maybe it verifies what you have written.

rstarzboxer wrote:
Well seeuseeme after reading more on you, I can see we were all blind sided by your so called love for your wife.

Had I just wanted to blind-side I would have posted either one as anon and you or for that matter anybody else would not have known any better.

rstarzboxer wrote:
You ARE just a creep, ugh….I feel sorry for your wife and hope she sends you packing.

I can’t help with your or anybody’s opinions. Please read something that I had written before and after the post in question that needed to have been pointed out to, too.
http://help.com/post/154943-i-just-ca…
http://help.com/post/154943-i-just-ca…

Nothing much I can say except answer.

I read the whole post and what can I say? I don’t feel one bit sorry for you nor do I have pitty on you. I don’t feel sorry for you. This wasn’t that long ago and all the sudden you are trying to be a good husband? I don’t believe you. The sad thing in all of this, an actually a little funny, is that your “girlfriend” didn’t want you. She wanted you to leave her alone, you just didn’t get the hint. She never wanted you!!!! You just couldn’t take the hint.

what a creeper! you kno what your wife needs for her 11th anniversary?
a divorce.
So she doesn’t have to deal with your crap anymore.
You’re not being fair to her.