i need alot of help see i am in middle school and i
was fine u know with friends and then 1 day one of my friends started acting mean and bitchy so i told my other 2 friends if they thought she was being a ***** and 1 of them told my friend that i said she was a ***** so the girl that i called a ***** got mad but i didnt want her to find out and now i dont wanna go bac to school because all of them turned bac at me and i apoligized and they r still being ******* and i have to go to school or else my future will b ruined and i have no where else to sit in lunch plz give me some advice!!!!!and my friends swore not to tell and they said they thought she was being a ***** to but then they told her that i said that !! plzzzz help
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well if they turned their backs on u, then they might not be ur true friends. i advise u 2 find a new true friend or find out what is really going on in ur friends minds. Good Luck!!!
keep going to school and be nice. Ii will change for the better as long as your nice and if it comes up, just say that you are sorry and that you didnt mean it. you were having a bad day and was taking it out on the person you called an a************.
yo thanx 4 ur help u guys and i already said srry like ten times they ust keeep being mean the thing that is hurting me the most is my other 2 friends who said they thought the girl wa being bitchy told on me and i was kind enough to keep their secret! and they stole my other friends so now i am all alone in p.e!!!i have poison ivy right now and i am so sad that i have to go bac to school everything is ruined anything u can think of !!!!
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Ok so you said one of your friends was a **** and then she acted bitchy too and now all your friends have turned their back on you even though you’ve apologized to them. Is that it?
I see you’re not replying. I wonder where you went but anyways. Listen Aliza, is there at least one of those friends that you feel you can talk to the least bit about this? If there is, try to talk to that friend when no one else is around. That way she might be more receptive. And maybe this friend could help you resolve this problem that you have.
Think about it.
ya hi srry bout that i talked to one of them she was kinda the leader type of the hole group and she was my best friend since 6th grade!!! she said “oh i cant do anything about it” and i was like tell her he truth she wont talk to me instead she is taking the girl i thought was being bitchys side!
i talked to her on the phone and at school shes being a twoface!!
I don’t know what to say about all that Aliza other than: “Do you really want friends like that?”
Maybe it’s time you started thinking about trying to make new ones instead. I know it’s a new school and you don’t have your old friends anymore but you can make new friends!
When I was in school, my mom used to move every year so I had to make new friends every year! But you know what? It can be done! Don’t feel so bad about being on your own for a little while. Try to talk to other people and see where it will lead you.
What do you think?
marylou thanx so much for trying to help me and i actually didi do all that but u know its so hard cause i see those dumass 5 girls every where!!!!!!!!!
I know it’s not easy. Don’t feel bad for being on your own if you really don’t want to have anything to do with them anymore.
Do try to make new friends. I know you feel bad about this but it would really help if you just had one other person to keep you company so that you don’t feel alone and left out, you know?
Keep working at it Aliza. Something’s bound to happen.
Good luck, girl.
if they turn thier backs on u that quickly, i advise 2 find new friends, who u can count on.
one tip…dont say ur friend is action like a *****. that will always make things worse. just talk 2 her face 2 face next time!
Don’t kill yourself over some people who basically betrayed you. Not to be harsh or offend you but I don’t think they are worth it if they made something up. I think that you should try and make new friends. I know that it’s hard making new friends but it would benefit you if you made some. As for seeing the other girls in the hallway ignore them, if they see you reacting to them then they will try and bother you. If you were to be friends with them again then don’t tell one of them that another one was acting like a ***** just simply sit that person down and make sure that they are ok. I hope I helped.
oh gosh u know what they are all being a pain in my ***! i cant live with this NE MORE ur right and dthanx all of u its gonna be extremly hard cause i know i hate them and really want to get revenge, but i guess i am gonna have to take the…high raod and i dont give a **** about them so i am gonna just move on
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oh gosh u know what they are all being a pain in my ***! i cant live with this NE MORE ur right and dthanx all of u its gonna be extremly hard cause i know i hate them and really want to get revenge, but i guess i am gonna have to take the…high raod and i dont give a **** about them so i am gonna just move on
That’s a good idea. I’m glad that you realize that you can move on without them. By the way I like your default picture. =]
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