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ok, i realy like some one who is already goin out with my best friend.

this sounds really odd i know. start from the beginning. i really liked this girl 4 ages. im really not good at askin ppl out and im kinda nervous when it comes to thigs like this. i actually tried once. but i worded it wrong and she thought i ment 4 us to meet up like , group of us.anyway. i confided in my friend about who i fancied and then a few days lter i found that he fancied her too. i was then, later that day, talkin 2 the girl i liked an i found that she fancied my best friend. i know this may sound odd but im still crazy 4 this girl even thought she is now just started going out with my best friend. i cant tell her now otherwise my friend would be crushed, and i just dont know what to do. im crazy 4 her. any help on what to do would be gd. thx

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whitecamellia2 offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Kalamazoo, MI, US | 2 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

Ohhh….this is hard because your friend is involved as well. I’m not exactly sure what you should do because either way people will be hurt. If you don’t say anything you will be hurt, and if you do your friend (and possibly yourself) will be hurt. You may just have to try and get over this girl because you said she likes your friend (do you know if she likes you at all?). I know its hard getting over someone….but its part of life….I know this answer isn’t the best….but you’re in a tough situation. In the end though, it depends on how much you want to fight for this girl.

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Tragically_Misled91 offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 34 minutes after post)

I’m afriad you’re going to have to let them be. If she has feelings for him and vice versa there’s really nothing you can do about it. This is why it is important to speak your feelings before someone else does. Just try to be a good friend to them both and maybe one day you’ll find another girl you’re crazy for.

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