Love help: I have been with my fella for a year and love him to pieces. - Help.com

keep everything to urself, and u’ll be better

Well your worried about what your fella will think. Instead of worrying you need to ask him/talk to him. Its the only thing you can do right now.

Talk through any issues you have with any of them. And don’t tell them things the other people have said because thats stirring up trouble and i see you don’t want to be seen as someone who is like that so you need to be careful hun.

Your “friend” shouldn’t have let your conversation go beyond the two of you. Why would she do something like that? Maybe she is jealous that you are still with your fella and she isn’t?

I would keep my mouth shut, she obviously isn’t a friend you can “girl talk” with.

Did you get your e-mail fixed or do you need more help?

Well, it seems that everyone is blabbing to everyone, so you aren’t the only one who made a mistake here… even your bf is feeding off gossip from this other guy, so how can he get mad at you? He’s doing it too. At least now you know that you can’t share certain things with her… you might even want to say “thanks a lot” for telling her ex things you shared with her…. that it got back to your bf. And as a general rule, try not to share personal things other people have shared with you with anyone else…. it’s really up to THEM who they want to share things with, and if they trusted you with something, it’s not for you to tell others. But I know we’ve all made that mistake at some point in our lives…. now you know.

If your guy says anything, just tell him you learned your lesson and will be careful who you trust anymore and what you share!

Apologize, talk to him about it and never do it again