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i feel like im not important to anyone!!=[[

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Ell♥ 341 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

1. Why?

2. Why do you need other peoples approval etc? Being and feeling important actually comes from you at the end of the day hun.

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pinkswirl 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

is this related to your post about the people wanting to fight with you?

Help me with: Hey, was at the doctor and got diagnosed with possible costcochronditis although, i am really worried because it seems worse than that.

pinkswirl 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

oops ^^^ i think i got a wee bitty confused, my bad :(! - why do you feel you feel your unimportant?

Help me with: Hey, was at the doctor and got diagnosed with possible costcochronditis although, i am really worried because it seems worse than that.

Bebe♥*!! 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

no not really its not the fight..
i just dont seem important with to
other people…
like sometimes i try to talk to one of my friends and she just tell me things…
=[[

Ell♥ 341 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

What do you mean? She disregards your stories and tries to tell her own?
Or interupts you.

What specifically is making you feel unimportant.

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Bebe♥*!! 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

that like everything i do or tell her she just pretends i dont even exsist….

Ell♥ 341 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

How does she do that?

Does she actually say something about it?

Or does she just ignore you?

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Bebe♥*!! 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

well yeah in other words she ignores me

Ell♥ 341 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Are you in a group when she does this or alone?

Is it possible she just doesnt like you, or maybe she is showing off. Either way she seems pretty inconsiderate. Do you really want a friend like this?

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Bebe♥*!! 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

well we are in a group..
and well she kinda used to be the center of attention but like
not to show off nor nothing like that but now im the center of attention
cuz like well im the shorty of the group and well her friend mathew would always talk to her and like well now he talks more to me than to her…
and i he once got mad at her cuz she pushed me so i think she doesnt like me…
but im trying really hardd!!!

Ell♥ 341 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Well don’t try… Its ok for people to get jealous but it sounds as if she’s taking it a bit too far. Don’t show any effort towards her if she carries on. Maybe you could have a private chat with her to sort things out?

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Bebe♥*!! 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

well i tried that already but she just seems to hate me more every day
and well yesterday she told me to back off mathew becuase she liked him but im not goona loose a friend over her…
am i doing right?

Ell♥ 341 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Yeah it sounds like its her not you.

Just tell her all you wana do is be friends, and you don’t wana play games so she needs to decide if she’s your mate or not.

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Bebe♥*!! 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

oh okeii well thanks and i hope all this doesnt goo way to far..
=]]

Ell♥ 341 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Well if it does at least you can say you tried your best.

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Bebe♥*!! 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

yeahh thanks aloott!!!
ill try to fix things..
=]]

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