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You can find alot of friends on this site! Everyone here is usually very nice. Don’t let things get you down.

Baby girl, you are only 13. Your life is just ahead of you. Don’t feel sad and do not pay attention to those who picks on you. Read more books, try to entertain yourself with funny movies and cartoons, that way you will forget what is around you. Don’t feel sad because tomorrow is always a better day and if you focus to your own happiness then you will pass the others picking as nothing.

How old is your sister? It sounds like she is bullying you. If your Mum doesn’t listen perhaps an Aunt or Grandparent can listen. Maybe you could ring or email the samaritans or childline in the UK 0800 11 11. Join some kind of group or self defence class for more confidence and friends.

Most the people feel sad , depressed, & lost at your age because you are leaving childhood to be a young beautiful teenager .

You need to open up yourself to your mum & your sister & tell your sister that you love her & you want her to a friend with you .

it is normal to feel depressed at your age & understandable because of many factors specially physical changes that happens iniside your body .

Try to get any negative energy out of your body by practicing sports or doing something you always enjoy doing like drawing , writing or whatever you enjoy . You can even join a group activity so you can make friends there .

Your probabably just feeling generally fed up because of things changing, becoming a teenager and you say you miss life overseas. What do you miss about it? Try thinking of ways in which you can get into contact with what you did there, speak to the people who miss there, trying doing similar activities where you are now, to where you were before. Talk to someone, a close family member, a friend or a local counsillor/adviser or maybe a teacher at school. sometimes it just helps for someone to listen to you and understand you
good luck!