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I am feeling blue it want be long before I will be put out of my house.

My husband has suffered a stroke and we have lost our compacity of gain income. Plus it appears the stroke has changed him.

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Blue Moon offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Im very sorry to learn about your situation. I have heard about stroke victim’s having possible behavior changes too. Have you checked into receiving Social Security due to your husband’s disability?

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jennette4626 offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Yes however it no way touches the income we need thanks for your concern. What’s your opinion of this site. I have never done this before but I felt really low, I guess with it being mother’s day weekend. Just needed something to snap me out of this funk. I am looking forward to gaining some employment soon before I return back to school. Again thanks for responding.

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Blue Moon offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

You are welcome, and good luck with your situation too.
I am very new here too. I have also been in a funk, for over two years now, that I cant seem to get out of. As for this site, I like what I have seen so far. People really do have great ideas on how to help others. It is glad to know people are still human :)

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jennette4626 offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

I notice the map in the corner this give our general location in term of the section of the country were from do you know if this site is international, also. Well you say that you are in a funk, too. Do you want to share what’s going on?

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Blue Moon offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

Yes, this site is international. Ive seen people from Japan, Australia and India on here. As for my funk, well, I just dont like myself. I know there are many people out there who have far worse problems than I have, but Im in this poor me pity mode. Oh well. Thanks for asking though :)

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1 month, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

Well you seem to have the ability of being a good listner and not everyone can do that adequately. I guess that why I am on here I needed someone to listen. Will you be celebrating Mother’s Day? Are you a christian, if you don’t mind me asking?

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Blue Moon offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

I like to help others as much as I can. It makes me feel better when I can help. My three children will be with their father tomorrow and I will be at work. I am a Catholic, but I dont have much faith right now in my religion or God. As for coming on this site for help, I think that if it helps, that is all good :)

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Anonymous #
1 month, 3 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

Thank you for sharing I agree with your comment accept my faith is what get me through these blue times. Is as if I didn’t have my in God that things are going to change and get better well… I would be chewing bubble gum! I have a five year old son. I look at him and I tell myself there’s no way I can give in because he needs me and he didn’t ask to come into this complicated mess.

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Blue Moon offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

So true in what you have typed. I have three children ages 15, 11 and 8. They are the only reason Im still here

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1 month, 3 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

Well Laurie1966 its been a pleasure chatting with you and I feel better THANK YOU for being there. I don’t know how this site works, but prehaps we can chat again. I will remember you and I hope you will soon know that you have every reason to like yourself. You have helped me this evening and for that I am grateful. May God bless you and keep you.

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Blue Moon offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

Im glad I could help, even just a little.
May God bless you and keep you and your family safe. Happy Mother’s Day!

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jennette4626 offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

Happy Mother’s Day to you also
Bye until next time.

“J”

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