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I think I want to leave my wife but not my kids.

I need love. True love. I think it exists and want to know it. Is this too selfish. I have the love of my kids but its not enough. he sex is okay and great at times. but its not enough. I need a good balance. I need to feel loved appreciated with someone who sees eye to eye with me and who can travel and have fun with me. Someone who i enjoy speeding time with who i can see growing old with enjoying life not just going through it. but i could be wrong– this could hurt the children. or it may just require some minor tweaking or communicating its not that we hate or dislike each other its just not….. complete… (lol Jerry Maguire) what should I do?

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Luton, I1, GB | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

well if you dont love your wife you need to consider a divorce, but you also need to consider the kids’ ages.

well if you dont love your wife you need to consider a divorce, but you also need to consider the kids' ages.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

maybe you need to sit down and talk with your wife explain how you feel maybe she will understand have you ever thought about talking to someone maybe there was a reason you stopped loving your wife but dont rush into leaving your wife talk to someone frist then your wife if you still feel that way and if your wife loves you she should understand if after that you still feel you need to leave well maybe the both of you can sit down and explain in to the kids

maybe you need to sit down and talk with your wife explain how you feel maybe she will understand have you ever thought about talking to someone maybe there was a reason you stopped loving your wife but dont rush into leaving your wife talk to someone frist then your wife if you still feel that way and if your wife loves you she should understand if after that you still feel you need to leave well maybe the both of you can sit down and explain in to the kids

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3 months, 4 weeks ago (9 hours, 41 minutes after post)

Have you talked to your wife about your feelings? Do you think your marriage is worth trying to save? Have you tried any type of marriage counseling? Just some things to consider before heading to divorce court.

Have you talked to your wife about your feelings? Do you think your marriage is worth trying to save? Have you tried any type of marriage counseling? Just some things to consider before heading to divorce court.

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