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2 year ago i fell out with my best friend.

we were so close and did everything together until i meet someone on the internet, he turned out to be someone my mate new and had a crush on when she was 13 yrs old. (we both in our 30s now) She told me if i carryed on talking to this guy she wouldnt be able to share anythink he and I chatted about online. So I carryed on chatting to him in secret and my friendship when from strenth to strenth until she found out I was going to meet him, she told me if i was to go see him she wouldnt talk to me ever again, but I met him anyway and she stopped speaking to me cutting me out of her life altogether. this upset me very much and it didnt matter what i said she didnt want to listern. im now getting married to the lad we fell out over and i really want her to be apart of my life and happiness. do you think i should say im sorry for going behind her back and tell her how much i miss her in my life or do you think iv left it to late and maybe move on with my life.

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littlenick offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 280 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

Do you think she was true friend who would want you to be happy no matter what?

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Nutmeg offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
Vancouver, BC, CA | 2 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 16 minutes after post)

Try it. She might not forgive you… or she might. If you miss her… go for it! Tell her you’re sorry. At least then you will know you’ve done what you could to fix things between you.

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