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Me and my patner have been together for 2 1/2 years.

i got pregnant about a year and a half ago. But i had a miscarriage and after that ive wanted to have a baby. not becaus e i think i can replace the baby i was guna have definatly not but i have thought about having kids since then and i really do wana have a baby
but mu partner is dead against havin kids yet he says hes not ready and i respect that but
hes at uni for 2 more years still and i dont know if i can wait that long what should i do?

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rstarzboxer offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

If you want to have babies with HIM, you will wait that long. You have to repect his wishes. If you rush him, you’ll just regret it.

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tea ali offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Well, he’s told you that he doesn’t want kids right now. Hard as it is, you can either wait until he’s ready or move on. Please don’t make the mistake of getting yourself pregnant ‘by accident’ just to fulfill your wishes. That child could become the center of problems for your relationship. I hope you can be patient in this situation. He sounds like a good man.

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