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i got drunk last night and cheated on my boyfriend we have been going out for about 7 months now..

and i know our relationship isnt strong enough to go threw another fight.. im horrible with getting sad and mad cause many reason i shouldnt blame it on me being bipolar but it is a big reason cause i cant take the medication cause if i do i could die some ingredient in it, it could like kill me, but besides the fact.. i dont know what to do, and if we get into another fight well i know for a fact that one of is gonna get seriously hurt, i have a problem with cutting and well.. i’ve been doing it scince 6th grade many years have passed and still cant stop.. i’ve been sent to the hospital at least four times because of it.. its scary cause i know if we fight it’ll happen again but i feel guilty and its not like i ment it or anything because i didnt.. should i tell him…

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Anonymous #
5 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Do you think any of that will excuse you for cheating on him?

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livelovelaug offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (11 minutes after post)

no, i messed up and i just want him to be happy he has enough problems as it is and just this would like kill him.. and i dont know i didnt mean to do anything i really didnt.. i was drunk and it was just horrible i didnt even remember my friend told me and i dont know im jsut so mad at myself..

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Dan TL offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 279 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 5 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Well when your drunk your not quite in the same mind set, but still you know and we all know what you did was bad. Sounds like you really regret what you did (or you probably wouldn’t of even came on this site) Well we all make mistakes, only human. I think you should just tell him and tell you know what you did was very wrong and that you don’t want him to be hurt. Who knows what will happen, I just recommend you be honest and face things straight on, they could be good in the long run and make things less complicated.

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Anonymous #
5 months ago (19 hours, 23 minutes after post)

I have been in your shoes before and I got to tell you it helps not to keep it inside. It is apparent that you may not need to be in a relationship right now. You need to focus on helping yourself first. You need to address the issues that you are going through before you attempt to have one. If you can’t remember what you do when you drink, you don’t need to drink. You say you just want him to be happy but your first concern should be (your happiness). Take care of you and love will come later.

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Plox Nork offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (21 hours, 47 minutes after post)

Your medication is not going to kill you. Why would you think that?

And how would lying to him somehow make it better? If you think that “what he doesn’t know can’t hurt him.” then you are just being self-righteous.

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whatswrongrive offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week after post)

im in the same situation, and i the truth is we all make mistakes, To tell him would only make things worse, so i say suck it up say, look i ****** up and move on, dont let it happen again and put the past behind you. We all make mistakes.

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samlive offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (3 weeks, 4 days after post)

I agreee hide it up n live wi the guilt! trust me the guilt goes, the day after haha!

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