Why would you hate your life because of someone else’s actions? Do not give anyone so much power over your life. There are multiple ways to deal with a situation such as yours. Everyone can post many different ideas but first if you could describe your situation in a little more detail. That would be very helpful.
There are ways of dealing with a bully kid. Be strong. If you do’nt start problems with this guy then you should be able to defend yourself against him.
If someone is bullying you just ignore it because they are stupid to bully people in the first place
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don’t worry. i have just officially kicked his a$$ over the internet. everybody stay calm. no need to panic.
It is not so easy to just ignore a bully. you have to be a blind *** if you believe that. this kid has to learn how to deal with it in a way where it stops and stops becoming a threat to him. The only thing you could do here is defend yourself. If you are not EVER the one antagonising this behaviour from this bully. Then you are justified to kick some as. Verbaly or even physicaly if it realy has to come to that. If this bully is making physical contact with you. You have all the right to defend your self. Any person can physicaly hurt another. We do not want to hurt each other in life, but we must stand up and be srong against threats to us. You can do it kid. If this guy approches you ready to put his hands on you. Just stay focused and watch his eyes. You will see every move he will make. do not have fear. just stair him with intent to strike back. he most likely will get the message before you have to throw any sneak puches at him. If you make this guy know that you are not going to take it he will change his attitude toward you
Jef I agree with most everything you post. But without knowing the full situation we cannot tell him to fight the guy. Just for example he is a third grader and he is being bullied by a sixth grader. That is just a recipe for him getting beat up plus giving the bully more confidence in future encounters. The kid needs to fully explain the situation. Dont get me wrong I am one for beating the hell out of all kinds of people. But that is not what I want to impress on the younger generation. When I was in school and I got into a fight my dad would either cheer for me and have a BBQ if I won or he would beat the hell out of me if I didn’t. Even in highschool kids didnt get sent to jail in my youth, nowadays they do. So according to popular belief that all bullies are actually little pu***. Say he beats the crap out of the bully, now there is a chance that he is going to end up being the one paying for it. Since the bully isn’t going to man up and say “no he was right for what he did because I threaten him everyday”. There is more of a chance of the bully crying to his mom and then the parents get involved and it becomes uglier than it already was.
Yes Jheez but not to beat the crap out of anyone. This kid has to defend himself. no matter what the size or age of the bully. And not nececarily buy using physical means, If this kid just stairs his attacker in the eyes and concentrate one not taking abuse from the a person at the time of the bully’s approach. This bully will see for him self. and if the bully strikes this kid can be ready for any movement and will find a way to defend himself at the time. Must be courages. Any one can do this if they want to realy set there bounderies with an abuser. even in school.
True but if someone wants to stare me down then be prepared to become a little more physical. Some people are just not made for confrontation and incouraging someone to try could end up bad plus damaging their self esteem and confidence if it doesn’t work. Since it is not guaranteed.
That is he should elaborate so he can get the information that best suits his needs.
anons rarely ever come back.
Yeah I posted 3 minutes after he started the post and not a word.
ok not guaranteed is a good point. It is up to this kid on what advice sounds like may work best for him. plus the guide of his parents or gardians should be seeked out. maybe this kid can take karate and work on his self confidence to avoid these things in future
That is good if the bully knows the kid is capable of beating the hell out of him then that would stop the bully. Plus it is good for like you said self confidence. Also excellent excercise. Plus girls like a confident man. Plus it is fun. Also you will gain a new group of friends that may show you another path.
I’m a girl and i HAVE ignored bullies , i found that to work best for me
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Jheezy wrote:
That is good if the bully knows the kid is capable of beating the hell out of him then that would stop the bully. Plus it is good for like you said self confidence. Also excellent excercise. Plus girls like a confident man. Plus it is fun. Also you will gain a new group of friends that may show you another path.
But those reasons are superficial. The only point is to stop the threats from the bully. Only to focus on that purpose in these bold new moves i am recomending.
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I’m a girl and i HAVE ignored bullies , i found that to work best for me
It is different for girls. Boys are usualy intimidated by the intelect of a female. especialy in the school years. Yes ignore is a good policy,it can look more inteligent. but this can make a boy look week and affraid or even yet look like he is trying to be smart. a this will only fuel the fire
Jef how can confidence be considered superficial? Since he will need confidence in order to stare down his would be assailant. If he has none it will not work since most people can “sense” when someone is merely bluffing rather than truley holding their ground. Not saying it is a bad idea, it just needs to be accompanied by other methods.
Also yes you cant give a boy the same advise that works for a girl since our “male” social expectations are based on the stronger of the species. Testosterone can assist in making the most mature man very animal like.
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