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Argh, what do I do?

I have a boyfriend and over the rather long time we’ve been together we’ve only been on one date, because we’re both more comfortable seeing each other in school. Summer is fast approaching, though, and so I have a problem. We probably won’t see each other and I’m afraid we’ll drift apart. All of his “friends” hate me and I’m afraid to call him of any of them are over, which could be any time. What do I do?

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Dan TL offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 241 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 5 months ago (44 minutes after post)

Why would they hate you? are they scared that your going to take away their good friend ? Well Early morning or late night is usually when a person is alone; starting the day or ready to call it a day.

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erin offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Augusta, GA, US | 5 months ago (46 minutes after post)

all his friends hate you?!
that’s harsh..
I agree with Dan, about the calling times.

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alex ^3 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Philadelphia, PA, US | 5 months ago (50 minutes after post)

Hmmm… it’s not ideal, but you can arrange specific times when you will try to call him (not necessarily for the whole summer - but when you talk, find out when his friends will be around next, and suggest that you’ll call him after that).

Also, I think you have to get over the discomfort dating if you want to be more serious about this guy. You should make sure you see him from time to time.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (15 hours, 50 minutes after post)

well dont let his friends stop you,they have to respect that he has you. Well invite him out and ask if he has other things planned if not, date on!

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

I KNOW were you live >:)

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