Family help: How do you feel about interracial dating? - Help.com

I see nothing wrong with it whatsoever.

I’m white and my girlfriend is Indian. We’re great together. I don’t see a problem either.

Sometimes the only problems are what others make of it, and then…….it’s their problem. Godspeed, Shakey.

Nope no problem with it - doubt anyone on here has . So no it’s all good

I don’t really feel anything about, its just dating.

I have no problem with it…
I’m in an interracial relationship.
I don’t see what would be “wrong” with it.

I have mixed feelings about it.

dating - yessir - it’s just dating - yessir - much like drinking - date or not - drink or not - yessir - see how annoying that gets renate?

Anon pink/turquoise was that a play on words?

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Anon pink/turquoise was that a play on words?

whoa. I just understood it now. haha.

renante8 wrote:
Thats what I think but when my cousin (who is black) and his girlfriend (who was Japenese) had a baby they broke off all ties with her now years later he died and he never got a chance to raise his kid.

But that could happen to anybody…I mean, even in a relationship of the same race.

He would have missed out on being a fether no matter his colour - so no it totally so doesnt apply

I don’t like dating. I’d rather be married.

renante8 wrote:

erinum wrote:

renante8 wrote:
Thats what I think but when my cousin (who is black) and his girlfriend (who was Japenese) had a baby they broke off all ties with her now years later he died and he never got a chance to raise his kid.

But that could happen to anybody…I mean, even in a relationship of the same race.

Yeah but they told her it was because he was black and they didnt want her to have achild with him because of his color

oh. o_O;

True - thats one of the few inter race relationships that one side can completely shut out the other - it’s not much spoken of - but I saw it on Law & Order and the kid isnt accepted anywhere - did you see that episode?

Well - that is not really about the relationship per se - it’s a culture clash - and apparently a massive one. It is totally normal here in UK so cant advise you - but he’s dead now so - I suppose you were just asking out of curiosity. Do you keep intouch with the child - it’s still family?

The entire “oh the world should be accepting” blah blah blah. I’m sorry if I’m sounding like a pessimist. But I think races and certain people involved in them are very racist.

I see black men, some (no, I am no racest toward black people, just the ones who do THIS) go “look, I’m dating a white chick, she’s so naive, I’m going to **** her over.”

Yes. I’ve seen it. In those words.

Yep and there are plenty of little blond chicks who’s biggest ambition is to be a baby-momma - coz they saw it on Jerry or whoever. 2 way street I’m afraid. the girls in the UK use those babies to get houses - the guys have 5 mommas for their kids so 5 diffenrent houses - oh yes it happens but it’s not all the guys fault

Its ok renate - just pointing it out - still talking aren’t I? Anyway you have a good point - the relationships that dont even get air time

The term race refers to the concept of dividing people into populations or groups on the basis of various sets of characteristics.[1] The most widely used human racial categories are based on visible traits (especially skin color, cranial or facial features and hair texture), and self-identification.[1][2]

I don’t like dating at all. Most of the time I sit there wondering what am I doing here.

Do you mean here as in help or here as in general - I can think of no worse thing than a date - ever

OMG! All this time I have been talking to you and I didn’t know you were green!

I don’t think there is anything wrong with it. Some of my closest friends are the opposite race of me. My dad, he has had bad experiences and dissapproves of it. But he is the only one I know besides my half-sister’s mom’s family that is like that.

Green?

“The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.”
Friedrich Nietzsche

DO WHAT YOU KNOW TO BE RIGHT, BE STRONG, BE BRAVE, TURN YOUR BACK ON THE CROWD AND CHANGE THE WORLD:)

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Green?

I’m sorry was it purple?

I’m sorry what -

Interracial dating?
****.
That’s how I was BORN!
BRING IT!

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I’m sorry what -

I’m sorry, I draw the line on alzheimer’s:)

So senility no - dating ok

Ha ha just left and as I was leaving - the penny dropped - as green as the grass is purple - answers were good though so I left it to itself lol

I see no problem with it, it’s society that’s a problem… and unfortunately society can make things stressful and difficult for an interracial couple in some cases. The couple still has to be very strong to overcome the obstacle of “society”. Hopefully that is changing, but not fast enough.

i think its ok..as long as they are happy…y not!!! everyones gonna be one race someday anyways!!!!

Interracial relationships are beautiful.

If you have something against interracial couples you are a racist.

Ignore the troll, people. >.