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I need some help, that is that i have some diffeculties not really big ones but just the problem is chooice.

My special someone dumbed me cause i didnt give her attention, i was kind of heart broken but i came to realise that the world goes on. It’s been 6 months and until now i havent made a move. I like two people, I will state them as A and b. A is shy i guess to me, and b is somewhat not as a. They both like me, but B shows more feeling than a thats because as my opinion i would say a is shy. I like a more but i have this big guilt everytime i want to make a move on a, so i just drop it and when i get home again a call myself an idiot. THis guilt comes cause B introduced me to a, and b always did try to show feelings. I find a more hot and b is hot too. I tried talking to my friends but still im not sure. I wouldnt like to to ask one on date and later found out shes not the right one, cause i would not feel right asking the other one again. ANy offer of help here?

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GiggiDyGiGgiDy offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 105 #
Parsonsburg, MD, US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

uhhhhhhhhhh
ask A if she’s not the right one go with B simple as that

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nameless offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

thats how simple it is?
As i said she likes me, but how would you ask someone if he or she is right?

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Blue Moon offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

If you like A more, than ask her out first. Why not ask B out too. We are talking about dating here. Dating is just that, going out with people to find a connection.

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GiggiDyGiGgiDy offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 105 #
Parsonsburg, MD, US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

yes well dating doesnt work for teenagers

just ask one that you think will work and if it doesnt go for the other

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nameless offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

what about the guilts? i will still feel bad for her

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GiggiDyGiGgiDy offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 105 #
Parsonsburg, MD, US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

why when u can ask her out ?

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Blue Moon offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Why will you feel guilty? You only feel guilty if you have done something wrong. Dating more than one person isnt wrong.

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GiggiDyGiGgiDy offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 105 #
Parsonsburg, MD, US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

aaaaaaaarg just ask them both if they wanna date at the same time a 3-some

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nameless offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

DaNi♠HaTes♠You wrote:
why when u can ask her out ?

mhhh, never really thought of it that way
thanks

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GiggiDyGiGgiDy offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 105 #
Parsonsburg, MD, US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

i mean u may feel guilty but if the first one doesn’t work out u can always ask her out
but then i guess if the first one does work out theirs nothing to feel guilty at anyway because it worked out? does that make sence

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nameless offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

yeah pretty much, you open my mind

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GiggiDyGiGgiDy offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 105 #
Parsonsburg, MD, US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

good

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nameless offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

just one thing, little awkward but if i ask one out and the cool places is 30 minutes bus. I feel kind of nervous and i have no idea what to talk about in the bus and i hate it cause their are so many people

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Nutmeg offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
Vancouver, BC, CA | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (51 minutes after post)

ask her if she can get dropped off there by her parents… or tell her to meet you there… that way you don’t have to talk on the bus.
Or, just sit in the back of the bus and talk about everything… school, friends, life, anything. Or bring an ipod and listen to music with her. Or bring a newspaper and talk about news with her. She’ll probably be just as nervous as you are.

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