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hi im 18 pregnant n doing this alone …

i dont have support except for a couple services that are offered in my area and they only help with baby clothes ex. i need as much help as i can i am keeping my child but i am not financially stable n i need a little boost

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Anonymous #
1 month, 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Where do you live maybe we can get you some information for help

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mar offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Littleton, CO, US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Where’s the dad?

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CrackHacky offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
Mill Hall, PA, US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

WIC (food) Food stamps (food for you)

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CrackHacky offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
Mill Hall, PA, US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

parents?

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Goodfella offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Where do you live and what kind of support are you looking for ? We need to know what you need immediately .

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CrackHacky offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
Mill Hall, PA, US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

was this a planned pregnancy (whether or the not father helped planed) i.e. you wanted him to have to commit to you or something?

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soulja_gurl_o offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

this was not a planned pregnancy .the father wants notin to do with it and i just came across this site and realised theres actually ppl out there that care about other ppl in need

i just need help anything would do to get on my feet n start a good life for my clild

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Anonymous #
1 month, 4 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

So where are you - we cant get you what you need if we dont know where to - just roughly what state?

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that1salvagegu offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

Do you know the gender yet? Where are you living? I have tons of baby clothes that you’re more than welcome to. Also, I have a baby swing and some other stuff if you’re near by. I live in Washington State. Let me know.

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soulja_gurl_o offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

i live in canada

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that1salvagegu offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

how far along are you? Do you know the gender. I have more girl clothes than boy clothes but either way I have tons of each.

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Goodfella offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

I don’t know what they offer in Canada ?

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soulja_gurl_o offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

im 6 and a half months in its a boi 3

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Anonymous #
1 month, 4 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Which part of Canada

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that1salvagegu offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

Well, if you want I can mail you some boy clothes. Some are still in the pkg. with tags. I just had a boy, but he’s growing extremely fast and already is in 3-6 mo. clothes at 3 weeks. Would you like them?

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srnityblu offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 23 #
Regina, SK, CA | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Wow, I have to say that you are a woman of courage, and as scary as it is… You will make it… Hey I am in Canada too!

my email is srnityblu(@)yahoo.com send my your address and I’ll send you some stuff…

looking up some stuff on the net for you… I am sure Canada has a free milk program for mothers… just a sec…

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that1salvagegu offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

My e-mail is i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> if you’re interested in boy clothes. Also I have a few cans of formula to spare as well.

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soulja_gurl_o offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

i would appreciate anything from anyone

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that1salvagegu offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

I sent my e-mail but it’s waiting approval, whatever that means….e-mail me and I’ll send you the clothes no problem

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Anonymous #
1 month, 4 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Hmmmmmmmm Soulja Girl

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Is this your cousin with the same e-mail?

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that1salvagegu offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Good luck to you and best wishes to you and your new baby boy :)

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soulja_gurl_o offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

i dont live in toronto

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srnityblu offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 23 #
Regina, SK, CA | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

http://www.lalecheleaguecanada.ca/

This site has a lot of wonderful information for first time mommies.

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soulja_gurl_o offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

thank u
:)

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srnityblu offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 23 #
Regina, SK, CA | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

I had my first one at age 19, and preggers with twins six months after I had our son!!!!! I understand it must be very hard and scary, but you can do this, just please keep up with your vitamins, those are very very important.

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soulja_gurl_o offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

i will

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Goodfella offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

srnityblu , well done , A woman who gets right to it !!!

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soulja_gurl_o offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

lol

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srnityblu offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 23 #
Regina, SK, CA | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (57 minutes after post)

Well, that’s one way of looking at it… hahahaha

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RedMustangRS offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (5 hours, 11 minutes after post)

I’m not from Canada, so don’t know your resources there, but since you have access to a computer, try something as simple as doing a search for “assistance” or the like, that’s directed towards canandian sites.

There are a lot of resources out there that might be able to help, such as The Red Cross, www.redcross.org, and others. There are also places where people are offering stuff for free such as FreeCycle www.freecycle.org, that may be of assistance. You’ll have to research, and dig a little, but I’m sure you’ll find something.

Hope this helps.

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angel_td offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (12 hours, 3 minutes after post)

i have been in your shoes hunny and i am glad to see that you are a stronger woman than i was. it is very scary and i dont know if your religious or not but pray baby. like some of the others i dont live there so i dont know any resources that may be available to you but i will be glad to send you some clothes for you and or the baby. maybe even some money. i cant do alot but i would like to help if you want. you may be young and regardless of what you or anybody else may think you dont need the father and from what it aounds like he would only bring you down and you have shown that you are stornger than that.

take care of yourself and i will pray for you and you little baby boy.
god will take care of you

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Anonymous #
1 month, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 9 hours after post)

Don’t worry. You are never alone. There is ALWAYS someone who cares so don’t ever give up. Especially now that you have a child coming! Good luck. We are all here for you.

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