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is suicide sometimes the right anwser?

i just have to know could it be the right anwser at times?

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blond_girl_1 offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (0 minutes after post)

yeah if you want to burn in HELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Jhend2 offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

NO, NEVER EVER EVER
what in ur life is so bad that u would want to do that to urself?

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Jhend2 offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

dieing is going to solve anything it will ,ake matters worst

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chev.jame offline Verified User (5 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

I think of suicide as a permanent solution to a temporary problem!

VKei offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Those for whom suicide is an excellent choice unfortunately never think to do so.

If you’ve ever felt suicidal, that’s actually an excellent reason to NOT do it.

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Jhend2 offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

dude you have your hole life ahead of you so dont waste it. are you a social person

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Plox Nork offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

If we are talking real situations, there is probably a situation where killing yourself would be the right option. But I’m too lazy to think of any.
If we are talking fictional situations, that’s easier. Like if zombies came and they were gonna turn you into one of them you’d be better off strapping explosives to your body and at least taking a few of them down while making sure you were not ever going to be a zombie.

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VKei offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

There are way better ways to die than suicide. You only have one life, do you really want to spend it with self-inflicted wounds and pill overdoses?

Find yourself. Be yourself. No matter what. Hell, get killed for something you believe in. Everyone alive is something different, but none of us are dead.

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RedMustangRS offline Verified User (4 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 21 minutes after post)

Not to be a, or the myrter here, but I generally agree with everyone, but there are some valuable points missing here as well.

First off, to show that I relate, yeah, I’ve thought about it, at least wished my life were over do to whatever situation I was in, feelings I was having, thoughts, etc. behind it all, and yeah, for me, my life still sucks.

But here’s what I also think.

Killing yourself, is the number one most Selfish thing you, I, or anyone could do. It’s hard for us who are naturally inclined to be selfish, we as humans are just that way. What we need to remember, and I’m saying we, because I’m reminding myself as well, is that we ourselves, to ourselves, are not the only ones who think about us, want us around, and for some, even pray for us.

My attitude, esp. about myself is not the greates, even at this moment, but ther’s one thing I remember and think about, whenever my mind goes down that road. No matter what I think of myself, there are those out there who care for, and even love me, not to mention would miss me if I were gone, and would otherwise have a more difficult time living without me. And believe me, this is both hard for me to say, or even admit to myself, but deep down inside of me, to my core being, my soul, whatever you want to call it, I know this to be true.

Regardless of your, or anyones view of taking your own life as being a sin or not, it’s NEVER THE RIGHT ANSWER. Consider this too, supose, just supose you did attempt it (and I’m certainly not suggesting you do), but what if you attempt fails. What if all you do is bring about more pain to yourself than your already feeling, or worse, your near dead, as in worse health, like becomming a vegatable, or invalid, or something similar, but still have to live and endure the rest of life, your life, in that manner! Would you really want to make matters worse not only for you, and believe me, no matter how bad you, or I think it is, it can always be worse, but for others as well. Like those who care about you? Your family, your friends, and what about your children if you have any?

Besides also agreeing to the seeking medical help, if it’s really that bad? remember there are even those of us out there, like myself, who generally care about people. More importantly, YOU DON’T HAVE TO DO THIS ALONE. Try talking to someone, you’ll be surprised just how much support you might find.

As a final note, ask yourself this one question, and see how you answer it… if you were to take your own life, or even try, ask yourself if your really being TRUE to Yourself. I mean is this what you really want, or think of yourself? Or, like most of us, myself included, are you just hiding, or running from something? Is there someting your just not facing, or ready to face?

I sincerly hope that, and all of us, have helped.

For what it’s worth, remember, God Love’s you, and so do I.

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4 months, 3 weeks ago (6 hours, 42 minutes after post)

i no you will all proberly disagree but i think they is in some situations where suicide is acceptible, say if your dying from a long term illness and your in pain then wouldnt it be better to end ur life then carry on suffering to die anyways.
i have attemped suicide and i agree its not a good thing is you are not dieing in the first place, if i have had succided then i wouldnt have meet my beautiful girlfriend and i wouldnt have ever felt love, i also wouldnt have felt a great deal of pain as i did at the begginning of this year but grief is somethi9ng that everyone will go throught and helps shape who we are as a person

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (11 hours, 26 minutes after post)

do u think that it is right

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johncena offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (11 hours, 30 minutes after post)

there must be a reason y u want to commit suisied
xxxxxx

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johncena offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (11 hours, 33 minutes after post)

ow soz thought u ment that u wantd to commit suicied
1 of my famaliy members tryed to do that
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johncena offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (11 hours, 38 minutes after post)

well no i dont think it is coz i tryed 1
no my name is andrea
xxxxx

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johncena offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (11 hours, 41 minutes after post)

soz got to go

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Silverwings offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Adolphus, KY, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (15 hours, 34 minutes after post)

NO……..

It is never……….

The right answer !!!!!

It only leads to a very “Dead end. ”

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4 months, 3 weeks ago (15 hours, 45 minutes after post)

Unchangable forsay wrote:
Why was all of K’s resopnches removed?

This is my thread i will be the one who removes the things i don’t want, he was presenting the other side of the argument there is nothing wrong with that.

K is a troll.

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Anonymous #
4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 15 hours after post)

why are alot of the replys removed

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sandeep_4u offline Verified User (2 weeks, 6 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 6 days ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

one day we all have to die,why not by yourself.

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 5 days ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

i agree but it anit always the best way

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