friends help: I am the OUT CAST :( - Help.com

If you are contemplating suicide, hurting yourself, or you are seriously depressed: please, seek professional help!

Call this hotline (1-800-273-8255) operated by our friends at the
Suicide Prevention Lifeline, anytime, for free, professional, and
confidential assistance. While other Help.com users are likely to reply
to your post, please make sure you understand that your use of Help.com
falls under our TOS.

Note: I’m a robot that the Help.com staff created. If this response is in error, I apologize, please ignore it.

Are you the female on the left in the picture?

Have you talked to a professional about this?

Oh, you’re not ugly at all. You shouldn’t be depressed about that. Was that your GF? I that your daughter?

If it makes you feel any better I never had a girlfriend and I’m 21.

But you don’t look bad. And even the not so good looking boys would have girlfriends, it is all self confidence and sincerity that play the game.

All in all, please do not be in a rush. Girlfriends can wait. For now, work on your social skills. Be inspired on what you have accomplished. And try to reach your dreams. The world should not be ruled with superficial beauty.

Wow your mom looks really young.

I’m surprised, maybe you should be more sociable. You look like a normal dude.

At the risk of repeating myself and you can get more ideas if you browse other suicidal posts for suggestions.And Im not just saying this,You ARE a good looking person,so thats not where the problem is.

mattg24 wrote:
but Theirs this one girl at my school and she sits at my table at lunch and she wont sit next to me cuz she thinks i m ugly and it just makes me feel really bad about my self

How did you know she thinks you are ugly? maybe it would be better if you would like someone who knows what real beauty is.

Then that makes it HER problem,not yours.Don’t take it personally,because its not.

Omg… how can you hate the way you look??? You’re a hottie!!!!

Do you see the look on your mom’s face? How happy she is in that photo… now try to imagine what her face would look like if you committed suicide… now imagine your little sisters face when she finds out she no longer has her wonderful older brother to look out for her, to play with her, to be there for her… Killing yourself is one of the most selfish things one can do. While you’ve ended your life and pain, you have now caused the lives and feelings in all who know you to become glum, and actually furious!

Look, at least you’re 16.. you still have PLENTY of time to change your life. I’m almost 24 and I have no boyfriend now, no friends where I live, and I’m scared out of my mind to drive… which means I can’t drive to see my friends that I do have who live forever away. I spend my life working for my parents with no reward except knowing i’m helping them out, I help others and am treated like crap, and my life is currently going no where. Sure I’m depressed as hell ( I have been since I was a teenage) and sometimes think about just ending it all, but I don’t. My 2 biggest reasons, 1) I’m scared I’ll try and fail only for it to HURT and 2) I think about what my family will go through if I were to actually succeed. The latter for the most part has kept me alive. I could never do that to them. I atleast know that they will miss me, and that is enough.

P.S. I didn’t get my first bf until I was 18…and we were together for 4.5 years only for him to rip my heart out.. my second bf was great until he too dumped me… love sucks sometimes! Enjoy being single….make sure you’re happy with yourself and with being single before you get in another relationship.

just talk to people and maybe u wont want to spend time in ure room anymore