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Everything irritates me right now…

I cant feel at ease, I cant feel right, I cant feel normal. Why does nothing feel the same with me n her? Why do I have a midterm and a test tomm that I noe nothing about and why didnt I study for them? Why the hell have I felt like I’ve been floating all this weekend, and not myself. Why am I so afraid right now of my relationship? Why can’t I let myself be happy? How come she can be fine distancing herself and learning to enjoy her life when I cant? How come im so obsessive? How come when she says shes ok I dont believe her at all? How come I never feel like she cares anymore unless I ask and she tells me? How come she says such sweet things but I doubt them? How come I worry so much when she finally comes to meet me thatll be the end? How come I cant just be happy that itll happen? How come I have so many questions and no answers?

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unsoshabl offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 2 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

I really wish I could help you. I too happen to be in the same boat. I appologize my friend, and I hope it all get put together for you.

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Snar offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

unsoshabl wrote:
I really wish I could help you. I too happen to be in the same boat. I appologize my friend, and I hope it all get put together for you.

Thanks fer your sympathy, I wish you luck as well.

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qΛ§Ħ (B.R.B) offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 143 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

wts ur age? and is this ur first relation?

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Snar offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

¶Ǻ§Ђ wrote:
wts ur age? and is this ur first relation?

17. 3rd.

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qΛ§Ħ (B.R.B) offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 143 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (42 minutes after post)

Ur 3rd relation? then u must have some experience abt it.

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Snar offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (43 minutes after post)

¶Ǻ§Ђ wrote:
Ur 3rd relation? then u must have some experience abt it.

i suppose, the first one wasnt really real and the 2nd was all physical. I always thot this was the most ballanced of them…. it’s just goin pretty ruff rite about now.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (45 minutes after post)

u think that the one u have now is the best of all the realations?

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (46 minutes after post)

¶Ǻ§Ђ wrote:
u think that the one u have now is the best of all the realations?

By far.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (46 minutes after post)

hi i fill like that right now everything that my famaliy dose really winds me up and so dose my boyfriend but he undrestands coz i spoke 2 him try to do the same

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (52 minutes after post)

remember i dont speak on that coz i dont now how 2

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qΛ§Ħ (B.R.B) offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 143 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (53 minutes after post)

why do u think u r scared?

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (54 minutes after post)

wt do u mean

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (57 minutes after post)

r u still there

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

I actually asked that from Snar.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

But i dont think he is here.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

ow soz

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

when was the last time i spoke 2 u?

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 3 minutes after post)

The Four Spiritual Laws

1. God LOVES you and offers a wonderful PLAN for your life.

God’s Love
“God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son,
that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life”
(John 3:16 NIV).

God’s Plan
[Christ speaking] “I came that they might have life, and might have it abundantly” [that it might be full and meaningful] (John 10:10).

Why is it that most people are not experiencing the abundant life?
Because…

2. Man is SINFUL and SEPARATED from God. Therefore, he cannot know and experience God’s love and plan for his life.

Man Is Sinful
“All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23). Man was created to have fellowship with God; but, because of his stubborn self-will, he chose to go his own independent way, and fellowship with God was broken. This self-will, characterized by an attitude of active rebellion or passive indifference, is an evidence of what the Bible calls sin.

Man Is Separated
“The wages of sin is death” [spiritual separation from God] (Romans 6:23).

This diagram illustrates that God is holy and man is sinful. A great gulf separates the two. The arrows illustrate that man is continually trying to reach God and the abundant life through his own efforts, such as a good life, philosophy, or religion - but he inevitably fails.

The third law explains the only way to bridge this gulf…

3. Jesus Christ is God’s ONLY provision for man’s sin. Through Him you can know and experience God’s love and plan for your life.

He Died in Our Place
“God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8).

He Rose From the Dead
“Christ died for our sins…He was buried…He was raised on the third day, according to the Scriptures…He appeared to Peter, then to the twelve. After that He appeared to more than five hundred…”(1 Corinthians 15:3-6).

He Is the Only Way to God
“Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father, but through Me’” (John 14:6).

This diagram illustrates that God has bridged the gulf which separates us from Him by sending His Son, Jesus Christ, to die on the cross in our place to pay the penalty for our sins.

It is not enough just to know these three laws…

4. We must individually RECEIVE Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord; then we can know and experience God’s love and plan for our lives.

We Must Receive Christ
“As many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, even to those who believe in His name” (John 1:12)

We Receive Christ Through Faith
“By grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, that no one should boast” (Ephesians 2:8,9).

When We Receive Christ, We Experience a New Birth
(Read John 3:1-8.)

We Receive Christ by Personal Invitation
[Christ speaking] “Behold, I stand at the door and knock; if any one hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him”
(Revelation 3:20).

Receiving Christ involves turning to God from self (repentance) and trusting Christ to come into our lives to forgive our sins and to make us what He wants us to be. Just to agree intellectually that Jesus Christ is the Son of God and that He died on the cross for our sins is not enough. Nor is it enough to have an emotional experience. We receive Jesus Christ by faith, as an act of the will.

These two circles represent two kinds of lives:

Which circle best describes your life?
Which circle would you like to have represent your life?

The following explains how you can receive Christ:
You can receive Christ right now by faith through prayer
(Prayer is talking to God)

God knows your heart and is not so concerned with your words as He is with the attitude of your heart. The following is a suggested prayer:

“Lord Jesus, I need You. Thank You for dying on the cross for my sins. I open the door of my life and receive You as my Savior and Lord. Thank You for forgiving my sins and giving me eternal life. Take control of the throne of my life. Make me the kind of person You want me to be.”

Does this prayer express the desire of your heart? If it does, I invite you to pray this prayer right now and Christ will come into your life, as He promised.

Did you pray this prayer?

Let someone know

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royaljef offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 22 minutes after post)

well I do not know you. but all those things indicate that you are very insecure with things in your life. If your girlfriend is happy, just be happy for her and if she sais nice things to you, she must feel nicely about you. are you using any recreational drugs these days. Pot can make a person insecure or paranoid. This puts a big dark cloud overhead and can ruin the quality of your life

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