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When things said and done are not uplifting or kind…….Don’t say them. Even if they are “jokes” Negative statements, criticism, and complaining are not ways to be a friend. Perhaps some personal inventory and changes might be in order. Best Wishes

Tell him how you feel

Way to jump to conclusions, if i said something mean and he got mad i would understand….i’m not making any negative comments or complaining it’s just normal talk and i don’t know when he’s gonna get mad next that’s all

[PorkChop wrote:
]Tell him how you feel

Yes i have tried and he gets mad and then he’s like,
“don’t talk to me if you don’t want to,noone else likes me anyway” and goes on about that so i feel bad for him and apologize

Dont
Hes emotionally blackmailing you darl.
Next time he says that say
“Yeh and you wonder why noone likes you if your like this your on your own until you change mayt!”
And see what he says to that
x

Your friend may be manipulating you. Knowing that you care about him he gives you a false sense that you are hurting him. If someone starts manipulating there is a lack of respect. They feel they can play with your emotions. You need to set things strait. Let him no firmly that you want an honest friendship if he wants any at all.

Apologies….didn’t mean to jump to conclusions but speculate. Sounds like you are being manipulated by your updated post. Sounds like your friend likes the reactions of sympathy. Just don’t react…….don’t bite. If he wants to be your friend, he will meet you on your terms. Not on some “feel sorry for me” platform. Hang in there! Best Wishes

CRAFTDOLLHOUS wrote:
Apologies….didn’t mean to jump to conclusions but speculate. Sounds like you are being manipulated by your updated post. Sounds like your friend likes the reactions of sympathy. Just don’t react…….don’t bite. If he wants to be your friend, he will meet you on your terms. Not on some “feel sorry for me” platform. Hang in there! Best Wishes

It’s ok….thanks for ur help everyone