friends help: oh my god well since the whole thing about me starting to like my friend.

Lau-Laur

oh my god well since the whole thing about me starting to like my friend.

this afternoon after school me and a group of friends were walking home on the way we dropped off my boyfriend. then there was “the friend” and another friend. we hung out a little till we had to go. so i walked off in my direction and who starts walking my direction. that friend. well we were just walking and talking and then we had to go seperate ways. i started walking off and he calls me back to sit and talk. i was thinking omg. but we were just talking.then we walked off in our seperated ways. walking off i looked back at him and saw him looking back. i quickly turned my head back as he did his. then stupid thing i turned around again to see him looking my way. all the way home i was just smiling to myself.
gosh do i really like this guy or is it all in my head??

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~Lucy~ 44 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (10 minutes after post)

maybe you do like him,but didn’t you say you have a boyfriend?

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Lau-Laur 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (11 minutes after post)

exactly im so confused about this

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~Lucy~ 44 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (14 minutes after post)

are you happy with your boyfriend, would you like to be with this new friend instead, how will your boyfriend feel, maybe you have a girl friend you can confide in that could give you their opinion,

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Lau-Laur 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (15 minutes after post)

i wish i had a gril friend to ask then i wouldnt be here lol all my close friends are guys and are all close to both my boyfriend and this friend

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~Lucy~ 44 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (17 minutes after post)

are you happy with your boyfriend,

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Lau-Laur 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (19 minutes after post)

i am but i seem to be more cheerful and laughing more with this friend.

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~Lucy~ 44 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (23 minutes after post)

even if you broke things off with your current boyfriend, could things really happen with this other friend, wouldn’t things be difficult if you are all friends, i don’t think you would want to hurt your boyfriend but if your not sure who you want maybe its best to be on your own for a while, just being friends with everyone

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Lau-Laur 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (30 minutes after post)

i was thinking about just being friend with every one intstead of being in any relationships. but i feel bad if i broke up with my boyfriend and it would feel awkward beacause we are all friends in our group

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~Lucy~ 44 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (32 minutes after post)

you could say you just want some time to yourself, it all depends how that relationship is when your together, can i ask how old you are?

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Lau-Laur 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (33 minutes after post)

im 16 turning 17 we have been together for about 7 months

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Lau-Laur 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (36 minutes after post)

im his first girlfriend too:(

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~Lucy~ 44 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (37 minutes after post)

do you see yourself as boyfriend/girlfriend, or just really close friends and you have no more in common than you have with any of your other friends, or even the other boy you think you have feelings for

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Lau-Laur 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (41 minutes after post)

well me and my boyfriend have a few things in common like music and movies.with this friend we have about the same things in commonn as i do with my boyfriend but maybe a bit more. yea i do see my self as boyfriend/ girlfirend but a few times ive sat there watching my bf and i had thought to myself tht we were only good friends or it seemed like it.

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♥Miki♥ 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (46 minutes after post)

I’m going to be harsh about this, and I apologise. Nut it’s in my moralistic nature.

It seems as if you do like him. Therefore, you need to explain this to your boyfriend instead of leaving him in the dark. It’s cruel.

If your boyfriend had a crush on another girl and didn’t tell you, wouldn’t you feel upset? I know I would. It can put a strain on your relationship, and in time, you might do something you will regret. Respect your boyfriend and tell him the truth, before he can get hurt worse.

And if it comes down to it, perhaps you and your boyfriend should go your seperate ways. No one likes to be the middle person. Especially when it comes to relationships.

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Lau-Laur 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (48 minutes after post)

you are so true i would feel pretty upset if my bf did like another guy. and im sure he would want to know if i had a crush on one of our friends.

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♥Miki♥ 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (53 minutes after post)

Exactly, my point. You’re a smart person. I admire you for that. :)

I’ve been in a similar situation before. So I know how it feels. I had just broken up with my boyfriend and the first time I met someone nice, I thought I liked him. We dated, and then I realized I was still in love with my ex. I had to break it to him.

But you know, even though we broke up, he respected that I didn’t string him along, and we stayed friends.

Coincidentally, I’m still friends with my ex as well. LOL. But it’s no longer a “in love” feeling.

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Lau-Laur 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

thanks its really nice to hear from someone that has been in tht situation before

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Freaky kat 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

lol. this sounds kind of funny.

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♥Miki♥ 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

You’re very welcome, Lau. I do hope all works out for you.

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