Love help: while my boyfriend was passed out me and his best friend kissed

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while my boyfriend was passed out me and his best friend

kissed passionately for hours now im doubting that i really love my boyfriend and i cant his mate out of my head i dont know what to do

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Dan TL 261 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Cheated on him and going after another. Well just dump him and ask the other guy that your interested.

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jade111 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (5 minutes after post)

little more complicated than that im engaged to be married to him and the guy i kissed is the best man

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Dan TL 261 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 5 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Wow, that makes things very complicated indeed. If you really don’t have feelings for him, getting married is the wrong thing to do so breaking it off is the best thing to so no ones anger builds and something bad happens. just find out how you feel about them both and then make your move, despite how hard it is.

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Gosh, then you need to break it off with him. Before you break anyone’s heart some more.

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happyhannah.jollyjac 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (29 minutes after post)

you need to think long and hard about this. are you gonna regret this later? y did u kiss the best man anyway? were u drunk? who started it? ask urself how u wud feel if you continued the marriage then ask urself how u wud feel if u went off with the best man.

cattail 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 5 months ago (35 minutes after post)

You have to figure out whether you really have feelings for your fiance’s friend, or was it just because you had been drinking? Perhaps you’d better confess what happened to your fiance… it seems all of you are being a little reckless while under the influence, but this is no way to enter marriage…. unless you’re sure it was a mistake and won’t happen again, and if you think your fiance can possibly forgive both of you for letting it happen. I’m sure he’ll feel betrayed by both of you. Being drunk is really no excuse for cheating on a partner… I’m not sure if your fiance will be able to see it that way… although he was so drunk he passed out!! We have to be responsible for our own behavior at all times… no excuses.

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teratot 8 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (36 minutes after post)

If you can see another man other than the man you believe you love, then it is not True Love. If you can see yourself with another man, do not lead him on.. There is one person in the world that you are meant for, it must not be him if you can have feelings for another.

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laurenwatkin #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (37 minutes after post)

tell him before you get married, at the very least. you don’t want that hanging over your head the rest of your life.

talk to your boyfriend and tell him what happened and how you are feeling. maybe talk to his friend first to see what he thought of the whole thing.

if you are having doubts, DON’T GET MARRIED. geez. that is so obvious. why enter a lifelong commitment when you aren’t really sure. take more time, as much as you need.

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chev.jame 26 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (2 hours, 2 minutes after post)

Why would you want to marry some guy who stays passed out for hours? That’s my first question.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (3 hours, 8 minutes after post)

Why do we always want the forbidden fruit??? Is it the temptation itself? or the person tempting you? Sounds like you need to be truthful with yourself and your fiance’. Would YOU want to receive this treatment and kept in the dark? OR Would you want your fiance’ to be truthful with you…..No mattter how painful. Truth hurts sometimes,,,but in the long run…..it always comes down to: WHAT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO? You already know the answer. Best Wishes

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (3 weeks, 4 days after post)

this doesnt seem to be a serious thing, i was looking up somthing toally different when this popped up. I hate when people like u do things like these, just dump that guy and elop with the other, something romatic. I have a huge head ache and have to work tomorow. AND to top it all off i have to plan a party for 50 people, teen agers with like no money! HOW THE HELL AND I SUPPOSED TO DO THIS?

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 months after post)

I know this is an old problem, but I figured I would answer this anyway.

I’ve been in your shoes. If you ask for an opinion online, expect a lot of insults. Don’t listen to them, because they have obviously not experienced the situation, as well as we have. And if they have, then they were in your fiance’ position.

If you want to know what to do, still, you can go a head and e-mail me at i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

That account is specifically for those in need of help in this type of situation.

Hope to hear from you soon,

Goodbye.

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