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Sex is hurting my girlfriend a lot.

We have had sex a couple times and it hurts her way too much. She is a small girl compared to my size and she is in pain when i finger her with 2 fingers.. but she says its getting better with that. We used lubricated condoms but she still is in so much pain. Can someone please help us

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Ditzy offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 157 #
Ventura, CA, US | 2 months, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

it could be vaginismus. I suffer from this. Theres plenty of websites but 1st check out http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginismus see if this matches/sounds like what your girlfriend is experiencing :S I have over come this with a lot of patience. See my post here (Im the Anon person who made the post) http://help.com/post/117753-sensitive…
it is very hard for doctors to diagnose coz there is no physical sign. Its a mental reflex in the muscles down there. 1 way of describing what happens is that it is like her genitals having a panic attack and not letting anything inside coz she is scared it will hurt.
Hope this helps (little bit shy about this too - hence why I was Anon on my post)

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