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*big hug*

Are u married?

yes

it just teaches me to take care of myself instead of trying to choke more love out of people who are not that emotional

You are talking abt ur Wife?

no, husband but alsa parents etc.

no

silverwol wrote:
r u gay? that would explain alot.

She is a Woman.

OK. Tell me what do u expect from them?

when i’m in trouble they don’t get too intense about it. When i was a kid they refused to discuss my problems or concerns at times and my husband does that too. I just want to discuss problems or concerns or feelings.

and i want people to kind of brainstorm with me about things.

U r in same condition as i am. But i m not married yet. And i hope that i’ll have a partner who is always willing to listen from me.
R they mostly busy?

Do they have time for u?

that might be part of it but they are also closed off for some other reason and they get peeved a lot about things i do.

my parents like the boys better i think

DO u have brothers?

yes i’m the only female offspring. They don’t like girly things.

You should not really think like that. I luv to have Daughters. There might be few people who think like that. But why do u think that is so?

Where are u from?

all over eastern united states.

I dont think there ahould be people like these in Europe or America side. There are people in South Asian Countries who dont like daughters.

you’re really nice. you would make a good father. Jewish people are like that sometimes.

Are u Jewish?

by lineage

Can u tell me in sum detail abt ur Family?

I have to leave after 10 mins. And will be back after 30 mins. Got some work to do. SO u keep on writing. I’ll reply them all.

okay

There are 8 mins left. So carry on. I m online now

are ur all brothers married?

yes but one is getting a divorce. Two of my brothers are very educated and the other one is a very religous jew. he’s kind of poor. My parents like people who are very educated and i am not and they don’t like religous people which i try to be. not judaism but more of a personal spiritual outlook.

hhmmm.. wts ur age?

fifty

U have kids?

i have on boy. he’s eight. He’s really great, i really love him.

wt abt ur husband? I mean does he love him?

he does but we have had a lot of fights and stupid stuff. we’ve been married since 1981

my husband loves my son a lot. they are super close

OOOhhhh. Before ma birth. Why do u fight? wts the main reason? and who is responsible?

Ok. I’ll be right back after 30 mins.

For how much time u r online?

i actually have to get offline but you have really helped me a lot and i feel better.

bye

thanks

u dont want me anymore? actually i havnt done anything.

I was trying to get close to ur main problem

i do but i have to study for this huge test. i’m in school. we have talked before. i just have to study now but i’ll shout you later.

lots of love to you

OK. i’ll be waiting.
Good bye. And never feel alone. U have many frnds.

same to u

Everyone wants lots of love it’s human nature.

Yea. Thats true. I agree

Times wrote:
Everyone wants lots of love it’s human nature.

Times wrote:
Everyone wants lots of love it’s human nature.

im human and I want love. without any i feel empty inside. love is what keeps me going in my life.

smile, I love you =o)

Try God :)

God is Love!

seek God, it may be the only impt thing missing and seek love from within. it must come from within for if you continuously seek love from others you will only be disappointed. they can only give much

I dont understand, are you addicted to it or do you feel unfulfilled?

What is love to you?

dcb_707 wrote:
seek God, it may be the only impt thing missing and seek love from within. it must come from within for if you continuously seek love from others you will only be disappointed. they can only give much

I agree. The times in my life that I felt like a bottomless pit for love and acceptance from others was when I had no connection to any kind of God. ( I’m also not talking about religion, necessarily, I don’t feel that you have to have religion to have God)
I really didn’t even care for the word God, until someone explained that it could stand for Good Orderly Direction.
I just happen to beleive that there is a part of my soul, or my experience on this planet, that can only be filled by God. When I try to fill it with things, or people, I only feel this gaping LACK, and nothing is enough at that point.

nainachick: what do you mean by filling your life with God (in a non-religious way)?

oh and to anonymous: I am SURE your son needs you!! being only eight he prob hasn’t reached the age yet where motherly affectation makes him feel too smothered and maybe you could take some comfort in the fact that you will always remain his mom and therefore one of the most important people in his life!!

I found, in my experience, that I do not feel fulfilled unless I have some kind of personal connection with a God of my understanding. and I will seek to fill that lack with all sorts of things that aren’t good for me if I don’t have a connection, i.e. spending money foolishly, poor relationships, etc. There are a thousand things a person can try in avoidance of a personal relationship with God.
I pray daily, and meditate often. I’m not some monk, walk around with prayer beads all the time, it’s just become a working part of each day for me. Then I no longer feel that lack. I don’t know how it works, I just know it does.

thnx for explaining nainachick!! I’ve been thinking about rediscovering my spirituality but at the moment I’m stll not sure how…maybe I will look into meditation!!