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Intrusion

Alone

I don’t want her to be alone. I love her.

I am just getting out of high school. I haven’t sent anything to any colleges.
I was planning to go to mission field for two years.
I was planning to join the NAVY.

But I can’t leave her alone.

I want to be by her side; I’m not ready to go anywhere…

Soldiers leave their wives and girlfriends; I don’t know if I can.

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Summerson 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (0 minutes after post)

if you love her, stay.

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Jheezy 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 minutes after post)

If you decide to stay then figure out another route for your life to take, that will help you succeed.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 6 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Go to college and enjoy life.

rachel_mcgrath200 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (5 minutes after post)

You should tell her exactly how you feel. If she doesn’t want you to go and she is worth it then stay with her. You’re still young. Things may change over time. Just follow your heart and everything will work itself out.

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Jenny*nilla*Moo! 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

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VKei 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (35 minutes after post)

Don’t give up your dreams for a relationship. Go your separate ways, become the people you want to be. If you were meant to be together, you will be again.

You only get one chance to make it out on your own. Don’t waste it.

rstarzboxer 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (52 minutes after post)

Don’t leave her, make a life with her.

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Nutmeg 22 #
Vancouver, BC, CA | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 hours, 35 minutes after post)

Welcome to the 21 century. Can you use IM and email and phones and webcams? I know its not the same… but you need to go for your own life, or you’ll regret it and subconciously blame her for your unhappiness… no matter how much you love her.

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cattail 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (4 hours, 15 minutes after post)

Sometimes things change, and perhaps she has changed the direction you want to go now…. that’s OK. We take life as it comes to some extent. Just make sure she feels the same way before you decide to give up any previous plans…see if you both want the same things!! But I don’t think you should give up college necessarily…. can’t you still go to school and be near her???

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ILOVEGO #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (11 hours, 34 minutes after post)

follow your heart! stay with your love. don’t go put yourself in harm’s way for a government that doesn’t care about you…stay with the woman who does!!!

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piano_angel199 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 week after post)

depending on what country…i guess.

I guess this is where you question yourself these questions:

1. How much do you love her?
2. How badly do you want to join the navy?
3. Do you think its worth it?
4. Would she let you go.

i think you should think about it a bit more, and really, you never know what the future can bring.

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