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are you a helper or helpless?

just want to know =o)

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TulipsDream offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Akron, OH, US | 5 months ago (0 minutes after post)

hopefully a helper

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crazy and random offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 482 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 minute after post)

helper. sometimes both though

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J 7 offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

both at times. Tonight i’m a helper, but have been helpless

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Cell offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 5 months ago (14 minutes after post)

I’m a helper and a help-needer. I don’t think I’m helpless. I’m looking for help. I’m trying to find a way out.

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5 months ago (16 minutes after post)

I’m am hopeless and helpless!!

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Rowass, Gone offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 533 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (21 minutes after post)

I am a helper.

Anonymous wrote:
I’m am hopeless and helpless!!

Of course you are hopeless and helpless, you’re an anonymous.

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countryironrocket offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

rowass wrote:
I am a helper.

Anonymous wrote:
I’m am hopeless and helpless!!

Of course you are hopeless and helpless, you’re an anonymous.

I’m not anymore

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Dance w/me Cristiano offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (23 minutes after post)

countryironrocket wrote:

rowass wrote:
I am a helper.
Anonymous wrote:
I’m am hopeless and helpless!!
Of course you are hopeless and helpless, you’re an anonymous.
I’m not anymore

yay * =o)

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Rowass, Gone offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 533 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (23 minutes after post)

countryironrocket wrote:

rowass wrote:
I am a helper.

Anonymous wrote:
I’m am hopeless and helpless!!

Of course you are hopeless and helpless, you’re an anonymous.

I’m not anymore. But I am a smart a$$

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Commander Ikari online Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 190 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (30 minutes after post)

yeah for false quoting!

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Rowass, Gone offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 533 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Yayayayayay

Commander Ikari wrote:
yeah for false quoting!

Thank Commander Salamander

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Commander Ikari online Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 190 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (32 minutes after post)

rowass wrote:
Yayayayayay

Commander Ikari wrote:
yeah for false quoting!

Thank Commander Ikari

thank you.

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Rowass, Gone offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 533 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (33 minutes after post)

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Commander Ikari wrote:

rowass wrote:
Yayayayayay

Commander Ikari wrote:
yeah for false quoting!

Thank Commander Ikari

thank you. I love watermelons tralalalala

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (35 minutes after post)

I am a helpless helper!

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countryironrocket offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (37 minutes after post)

Shakeybritches wrote:
I am a helpless helper!

Ok I am helpless in spelling, English, talking, telling a girl that i like her ect.
can you help me?

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (38 minutes after post)

Sure, fire away!

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bssa offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (40 minutes after post)

both

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countryironrocket offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (40 minutes after post)

both what?

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countryironrocket offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Shakeybritches wrote:
Sure, fire away!

OK how do stop being shy?

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (44 minutes after post)

Why do you feel you are shy, what are the symptoms?

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countryironrocket offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (46 minutes after post)

Shakeybritches wrote:
Why do you feel you are shy, what are the symptoms?

you don’t talk to anyone!!
The only people I talk to is over the internet.
on myspace.com and here on help.com

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (48 minutes after post)

Maybe you are a bit introverted as well.

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (48 minutes after post)

I know I am.

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (49 minutes after post)

Maybe face to face is a little difficult because you may misread facial expressions and body language….?

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countryironrocket offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (50 minutes after post)

No I can Talk to anyone who is older then me. my dad friends, teacher ect.

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (53 minutes after post)

countryironrocket wrote:
No I can Talk to anyone who is older then me. my dad friends, teacher ect.

Peers can be the hardest to relate to…….

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countryironrocket offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (55 minutes after post)

so how do you stop being shy?

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (56 minutes after post)

Start spending time with people you can talk to and trust, get into discussions and also talk in different settings, try role playing.

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Rowass, Gone offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 533 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (56 minutes after post)

You force yourself into a very awkward social situation.

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countryironrocket offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (59 minutes after post)

Shakeybritches wrote:
Start spending time with people you can talk to and trust, get into discussions and also talk in different settings, try role playing.

I don’t trust anyone!!
If i do They will move to another school again.

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour after post)

countryironrocket wrote:

Shakeybritches wrote:
Start spending time with people you can talk to and trust, get into discussions and also talk in different settings, try role playing.
I don’t trust anyone!!If i do They will move to another school again.

Sounds like you are more hurt than shy.

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

http://www.essortment.com/all/howdoio…

This site also has a personality test. I am going to take it right now.

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 241 #
Littleton, CO, US | 5 months ago (5 hours, 21 minutes after post)

I’m accidentally helpful. I found this site after like a year of crying, “I need help”. But I didn’t know how to ask questions or get help because I’ve always been so independent. So…. nothing I did or said or asked here helped me much, but it’s despite the fact that caring people are all around with various ideas and talents…….so to try to be helped I have tried to help. Many times I’ve tried to help!

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~LazyDaze offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 223 #
Colwyn Bay, 90, GB | 5 months ago (7 hours, 7 minutes after post)

I am a bit of both, although I have been a little more quiet on this site lately.

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Feiticeira offline Verified User (4 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (4 days, 9 hours after post)

I’m a carrot

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