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Does anyone Else Feel LIke This?

I feel so over everything, school and work. I.m doin yr 12 and wish I culd catch up with my skewl work but it feels like ther is sumthing always pulling me back like me having trouble with the principal and my mum telling me that her life revolves around my school and work, trying to make me feel guilty for not bein at home to babysit my bro.

the only prob is that i am at home if im not at skewl or work. im 17 and i dont go out, i dont go see my friends i dont go any where but i still feel like i cant help my mum or finish my studies. im always frustrated!!!! it like no one apprecaites me and i get treated like a little kid, but im mature for my age.

Does anyone else get frustrated?

how can I ove come this sort of thing?

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capreol offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

You are problably missing something in you life, There is something forcing you to do something you need to, but there is so much blocking you, i went through something like that not to long ago.

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delgirl4 offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Adelaide, 05, AU | 5 months ago (4 minutes after post)

yea i dont know maybe im just winging too much, but i just like letting out stress

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capreol offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Stress. im a good friend with that, but everyone has ways to get around it. But it deapends on the person you are, and the fimiluarity with depression(missing something) maby thats the problem you are facing.

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paranoiaman offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Go out. Go see your friends. Go somewhere. Exercise.

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delgirl4 offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Adelaide, 05, AU | 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

yea i think maybe i feel bad because i think my mum is suffereing from a bit of depression and stress. today she had an anxiety attack.

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RobDogg offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

i kno wat u mean im going through the same thing everyone is blaming you for things, your education is dieing and you just feel that there is no1 there to talk to. like your alone in the world

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delgirl4 offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Adelaide, 05, AU | 5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

i dont have many friends they all moved away from my small outback town. my mum forces me to stay home and babysit, chores etc. i dont really how much of a life anymore. its pritti much the same everyday

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delgirl4 offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Adelaide, 05, AU | 5 months ago (10 minutes after post)

i think maybe im just getting bored and fed up with everything

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paranoiaman offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Find a hobby, a pursuit, an interest. Something you enjoy and can spend some quality “me time” engaging in. And exercise. Really.

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capreol offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Yeah, same with me, but outside does help, the one thing that helped me was finding that missing part that stoped me from doing anything.

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delgirl4 offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Adelaide, 05, AU | 5 months ago (12 minutes after post)

yea im starting to think about what it is.

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RobDogg offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (13 minutes after post)

im gonna start learning drums and get a band going next semester (ill probably have to be lead singer aswell) and im just gonna put most of my time and interest into that and just block the rest of the world away for a while and rethink my life

it would be so much easier if u could just start life again

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capreol offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (14 minutes after post)

the problem i had for 2 years, which ruined my life at that time was that i was missing someone to love, which does help if you need someone to talk to, Ive been with this girl for a month now and everything has improved for me, tho it may be diffrent for you.

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RobDogg offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (16 minutes after post)

yea well i just ended a relationship today which piles things up even more…

i don’t kno if uve got the same problem as me delgirl but i think its along those lines not the whole relationship thing but the other stuff

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capreol offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (17 minutes after post)

If i had a bit more explanation on how she was feeling i may be able to help rob, Tho i have a major problem with worries and stuff, it was just an idea.

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RobDogg offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (20 minutes after post)

… she was ignoring me the whole week so i asked her if i could talk, she hesitated then finaly said yes so i asked her straight up why have u been ignoring me she replied i have my reasons and walked away then later on a friend of mine who is also a friend of hers spoke to her and told me in the next lesson which we had together that she wanted to break up but wouldnt tell her why just that she didnt want to hurt me anymore than she already has that about all i kno so far

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (30 minutes after post)

worst thing is we were best friends i mean best friends and now this… like before we were going out we were talking alot hanging out the works then when we were going out it all started to fall apart the first week was ok but after that it seemed she had lost intrest in me completely and i still love her, i love her to bits but it just seems she doesnt want to kno me anymore. and im starting to feel so alone in the world like there is no one out there for me.

sorry for taking your spotlight delgirl4

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capreol offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (35 minutes after post)

im going out with my ex’s best friend, thats kinda horrible all to itself, But back to delgirl4

You are problably just missing something, try to find out what it is, it took me 2 years to find mine. good luck tho, if you need anyhelp or ideas on what to do just ask.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (36 minutes after post)

lol my relationship was in reverse im going out with my friends ex..

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capreol offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (38 minutes after post)

does he/she know that?

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (39 minutes after post)

yea he hated me for it but then we talked told him that she came on to me (which she did) and all that and that i liked her for a long time and now we are talking so yea that was another thing, she blew me off like that with a good mate hating me i was starting to think what a huge mistake it was

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (41 minutes after post)

but like i told her if anything was to happen i would say look mate im sorry but i love her to much to be with her although im starting to doubt wether she felt that way to begin with we were only going out for 3 weeks

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capreol offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (42 minutes after post)

Jade(ex) has not found out yet, And Krista (girlfriend) Does not go to the same highschool as me, and since they are still good friends we try not to let jade know about it since i cant defeand krista.

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RobDogg offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (44 minutes after post)

ahh i see. i wish i had done all of this in anon cuz i just remembered she uses this site aswell

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JackieMa offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Gurnee, IL, US | 5 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

OMG! That is 100% like me! I know exactly how you feel!

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RobDogg offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (2 hours, 11 minutes after post)

me or delgirl?

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greenarrow offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (4 hours, 19 minutes after post)

I know how you feel dude and the best thing to get all that junk off your mind is to move out and get a roomate.At least roomates dont bug you to be better they know you for you.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (4 hours, 24 minutes after post)

oh and dudette if you dont want to move out just tell your mom to calm down and worry about herself instead of you because the looks of it she seems like one of those moms that pressure there kids to go to college when there kid or in your case since you dont think like a kid tell her you have a plan for your future. Sorry to sound a little corny but thats what i think.^_^

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JackieMa offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Gurnee, IL, US | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

Your avatar (profile picture) is ADORABLE! Where did you get it?!

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delgirl4 offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Adelaide, 05, AU | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 15 hours after post)

JackieMa wrote:
Your avatar (profile picture) is ADORABLE! Where did you get it?!

I think I got lost in my own post? whoz avatar r u talkin bout?

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JackieMa offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Gurnee, IL, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 4 hours after post)

Yours…delgirl4. it is adorable!

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delgirl4 offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Adelaide, 05, AU | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (4 days, 20 hours after post)

JackieMa wrote:
Yours…delgirl4. It is ADORABLE!

lol yea i got this picture off funnyjunk.com

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capreol offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (4 days, 20 hours after post)

lol cats.. good pictures in that place.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (5 days, 11 hours after post)

im trying to move out but i live so far away from all my mates that its hard to get a place to live

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