Love help: My x bf is egnoring me and its killing me! - Help.com

I’m telling you now girl
there are many fish in the sea and just because you lost what seemed to be the biggest one dosent mean anything. If anything try and be ATLEAST friends with him. thats what i have to do with my ex that i love. I use to cry so much but once i went and told him ok u dont love me thats fine but please lets be friends i was somwhat more ok, i still cried but I knew that he didnt hate me and i didnt hate him for any reason.
just becase one guy came and stole your heart and didnt let you steal his in reutnr dosent mean you need to go and blab about it, find another guy you love and move on and if still dosent loce you like you do him make him jealous, make him see what a girl he gave up.

I am sorry that this is happening to you. I guess you could say I am going through the same thing, except in my case, it is unrequited.
The best thing to do is distance.
Distance yourself from him.
If he is ignoring you, just move on.
Wounds heal with time and tears.
You may cry. It’s perfectly normal.
I’ve cried myself to sleep over this a lot too.
Many nights, I just felt like I couldn’t take it anymore.
But I kept going.
And with time, feelings will change.
Things will get better, and you can make it through.
Don’t you have any friends you can hang out with?
Stay with them.
And one day you will find someone who loves you.
And only you.

Take care.♥

me and my boyfriend just broke three weeks ago i was with him for 7 years we use to live toghther for four of them years. i feel like im going crazy i feel like i dont want no other man. im tired of feeling this way it feel like my whole life is gone.everthing in my house remind of him. i cant sleep or eat cant think at work i feel so helpless

im am so sure you going to be alright you still young im 32 years old i have two daughters one is 16 the other one is 14. you be just fine you still young and pretty. me to you will get over him in no time.

love_lost wrote:
HA FUNNY!!!
But thanks anyway!

Hi, Theres not a lot I can say that everyone hasn’t already said to you…. You are more than just an x-g/f, you have a identity and life of your own. He will know when you are better when you stop texting and phoning him, and start getting on with your life…A life that is only just starting. Think of all the adventures you have in front of you. I know you are broken hearted and cannot imagine life without him. At the end of the day…What will be, Will be…We can try and help ourselves and focus on the future, which when you are depressed can be hard, you feel without him, you have, or don’t want to have a future…But this is all about growing up and learning. What you have learnt from this, when you are ready you will take it into your next relationship. You may have many relationships before you find Mr Right and the others before will have taught you much from your experiences in other relationships, about men and mostly…YOURSELF. When you are a bit older, wiser, and experienced. What you are going though is about LIFE! So take what help you can and give it time. If you are meant to be with him you will, maybe not now but in time and if not even though you don’t want anyone else, eventually you will. :)

Its simple.
Please ignore him for a few days.
This will have two effects.
1. You will start living without him and
2. He will feel that you no more care for him. This will bring him near you

I think he may be giving you space to sort yourself out. He knows you need help as he gave in the note. So he does care. But men/boys don’t know what to do when us women/girls get very emotional and it can scare them. So maybe its a bit of both. You need to focus on yourself, as your life is more than just 1 boy. I don’t mean that unkindly, I just mean you have other things in you life and your future…At the moment you need to deal with your depression. 15 is a tough age your body and mind is going though lots of different changes and this can make things feel more intense. :)

Trying to get your head on the game???

If what you mean is get your head straight. Then I agree that maybe and that he thinks it is better for you to do it without him. Which will make you stronger.

Good, it will hurt but you can do it…Whatever happens you sound like a good, caring person. Your life is just beginning, but been a teenager is hard, with all the changes your body and mind are going though. From being a girl to a woman but still to young to be able to handle things without it being very emotional. We girls/women have all been though it. All these experiences you go though now, is what builds you as a person and sets your character. Also makes you stronger, every experience you go though, love or otherwise will make you wiser and stronger. Get ” your head straight” first. By then you will be stronger and when you stop texting him either being nasty or pleading with him, he will know you are have sorted yourself out. Maybe you might not get him back as a boyfriend but I think you stand a chance of being friends. I know you want more than that, but if its not meant to be, being friends is better than nothing. Once you have got yourself together and realise your true worth, you may be able to cope with that and move on with your life. Which holds so many new things, you have an adventure in front of you. Learn from all your experiences and enjoy your life. :)

Folks you’ll got it all wrong.
The female in the pic is my GF and I want her.
Thats all.

hotmale42 wrote:
Folks you’ll got it all wrong.
The female in the pic is my GF and I want her.
Thats all.

You are replying on the wrong post, yours is called ” I am finished”

thank for those inspring words i try every day to get over this realationshp its so hard i really love him. im am loosing so much weight i cant eat or sleep i drinking to to to much. i feel like im dying inside. i prayed to god to take these feelings away its not happeing fast enough. i wish he knew how i felt but he dont care. i wish i never met him. i think i need some help

mariabad1 wrote:
Good, it will hurt but you can do it…Whatever happens you sound like a good, caring person. Your life is just beginning, but been a teenager is hard, with all the changes your body and mind are going though. From being a girl to a woman but still to young to be able to handle things without it being very emotional. We girls/women have all been though it. All these experiences you go though now, is what builds you as a person and sets your character. Also makes you stronger, every experience you go though, love or otherwise will make you wiser and stronger. Get ” your head straight” first. By then you will be stronger and when you stop texting him either being nasty or pleading with him, he will know you are have sorted yourself out. Maybe you might not get him back as a boyfriend but I think you stand a chance of being friends. I know you want more than that, but if its not meant to be, being friends is better than nothing. Once you have got yourself together and realise your true worth, you may be able to cope with that and move on with your life. Which holds so many new things, you have an adventure in front of you. Learn from all your experiences and enjoy your life. :)

thank you for those words im trying to get better but it hurt so much it seem like i cant go on. i prayed to god to take these feelings away from but it is not happening fast enough. i been drinking to much just to forget about him but im killing my self in the process. i dont know how this happen to me all over again with the same man i love that man. but i need to try to move on please help me

thank you you are a very smart young lady and you going to make a great woman and mother if you want kids in the future. maybe im not happy with my life that why i feel so bad. and with him i had some kind of idenity. i think he was my crutch as much as he was my lover

dont cry for anyone noone deserve let things go as it is and god will help u and if there was real love he will back to u
i broke up few weeks ago it was really hard i adore him but he ignore me all the time and go out with his gf bf after we broke up he is asking me now to be simple friends is tht mean he want me back?