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HELP my online friend is very shy and she thinks people like her should never have been born?

I want to write her a nice email. What’s something amazing I can say to help her feel better about being so shy, and that it will get better. She is older not a teen, 20s. She thinks she wont get a job. I want to offer major BIG GOOD EXCELLENT words of encouragement . Something true to lift her hopes. She is a college student and at the moment experiencing HEAVY school work load also.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (0 minutes after post)

Sometimes they are marked as with adult content. People get them as notices but they are not shown in the home page.

Sometimes they are marked as with adult content. People get them as notices but they are not shown in the home page.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Ohh Ok well I just edited it to the post that didnt show up. I forgot about notices.

Ohh Ok well I just edited it to the post that didnt show up. I forgot about notices.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

ok. :)

ok. :)

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Anonymous #
1 month, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Still no help. =[

Still no help. =[

jcanton #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

Instead of focusing on her shyness, why not write her telling her all the other wonderful things about her? The things that make you want to be her friend, and sure that she has amazing things to offer to other people too? You may not be able to change her mind and give her all the confidence in the world, but knowing she has your support and that you think she’s someone worth knowing could help her see all that you see in her.

Instead of focusing on her shyness, why not write her telling her all the other wonderful things about her? The things that make you want to be her friend, and sure that she has amazing things to offer to other people too? You may not be able to change her mind and give her all the confidence in the world, but knowing she has your support and that you think she's someone worth knowing could help her see all that you see in her.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 3 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

Thank you Jcanton. I sent the email I hope it hits the spot.

Thank you Jcanton. I sent the email I hope it hits the spot.

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