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im confused soo much, me and my girlfriend broke up bout a month ago but made love in that time aswell…

now like 2 days ago we decided 2 try again and i just found out she is pregnent, the problem is i am not the obly lad she has slept with in this month….. this last night she stayed round her mums and said she will be coming back in the morning, although any attemts to contact her failed and she wont answer her phone… i also sighed up for the army and not sure wether 2 go in or stay and wait around for her… please help me

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RhiBeeBaby offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

if your joining the army make sure your serious about it. you cant just join the army to run away from your problems. i think you need to think about what you want and if you really love your gf

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cowd21 offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
GB | 5 months ago (5 minutes after post)

yes i do really love her and i signed up when we were apart… and i am serious about it… the problem is everytime she stays away for a night then we get trouble between us… i know by everything we talk bout she loves me 2 but why dont she answer me or even talk… i cant get hold of her

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RhiBeeBaby offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

maybe she is confussed because she is pregnant and isnt sure what to do about it. try your best but maybe just give her some time to think. i wouldnt join the army right nowq till you have sorted out the problems you are having

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cowd21 offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
GB | 5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

well thanks for the advice but still it aint hard 2 talk 2 someone saying “let me think for a bit” just get the feelin she dosent really care at the mo

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 5 months ago (13 minutes after post)

See, class; this is why condoms are your friends.

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cowd21 offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
GB | 5 months ago (14 minutes after post)

thanks for that

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RhiBeeBaby offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Im sorry for saying think about it but there isnt much i can say. i know how you feel if you know where her mum lives you should go talk to her

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cowd21 offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
GB | 5 months ago (27 minutes after post)

how can you talk if they wont answer the door? her mum doesnt like me and alot of there family either

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RhiBeeBaby offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (40 minutes after post)

oh ok i didnt know that. i know it must be frustrating but calm down. there isnt much you can do but let her have some time to think

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