Tell me this isn’t some crap!
I have been talking to this guy for quite sometime now, and I thought I liked him. He seemed like a good guy, real nice, sweet, sexy, and he’s good with my almost 4 month old son. He tells me all the time how much he loves me and how he wants to be with me and everything. I’m a good woman who takes real good care of him. I do everything in my power to make me happy. We talk all the time. Now the thing that pisses me off is that we go to the same club (but we don’t go together) by the time I get there he’s already there. He goes to the club alone but ends up sitten with these other chicks. I don’t care because he still comes up to me and these other chicks don’t like that but thats not my problem. No lie, people tell me all the time how beautiful I am and how they love the way I dance 1. I don’t think I’m beautiful at all (I got pics to prove it). I’m a chunky girl. I went from a size 24 to a size 18-20 in pants and I lost 39 lbs. Not bad but I could do better. Now this guy that I talk to called me the other night and he told me something that had me heated. He told me that he wants to be with me and all but wants me to lose weight so he can marry me. Now I know I don’t need a man like this okay. I feel like his words inspire me to lose the weight then kick his a$$ to the curb. Like I said I am a chunky woman but I can dance my a$$ off. I love going to spanish clubs. Come on I’m Puerto Rican what latina doesn’t. It upsets me because I’m such a good person, he can sit there and tell me he loves me and get’s mad when other guy talks to me but yet won’t marry me cause of the way I look. I have been trying to lose weight for a while now and it’s not easy, but just from what he says makes me want to lose the weight even more just so I can tell him to go blow himself.
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