weird fetish?
My friends begged me to go to a fetish club with them, so i did, just for fun ,
I’m met this amazing person , this might sound rly shallow but SHE’S F’ING HOTTT!!! lol , we clicked instantly!
after getting to know her more, she tells me that she has an extreme foot fetish…
and i was like …(o_O)
anyway, i am rly attracted to this girl, and i hope things will grow between us in the future..but, the only thing thats bothering me/holding me back is the whole foot thing..
is there someway to ..i dunno, make her not….argh, this is so hard to put in words, but u get the point yea? … i ‘RLY’ like her, she likes me too and she likes feet, i dont like feet*not the way she does* ~
What am i supposed to do? (o_o)!?!?
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i have no clue, thats why i asked in the first place lol
…i geuss the question is , should i force myself to lose intresting and just forget about her?
well does her liking feet (the way she does) bother u? cuz if it does, then maybe talk to her?
and if it doesnt then well..jus cuz she has “an extreme foot fetish” doesnt mean u should too lol!
..just..just talk to her lol
umm– yeah, i would do that
yes it does bother me! and about talking to her… i’m kinda nervous to what she’ll say, she’ll proly hate me or get pissed of, since I’M the one who went to the club with no fetish~ i’m imagining she’ll be like … “u should suspect stuff like that from ppl in this club” or “thats every immature! to walk in here and mess around with ppl like me” and stuff like that
You don’t have to have a fetish to go to a fetish club.
Don’t mess her around and you wont get that kind of reaction.
Explain that you’re finding it a bit unusual but you’re willing to be open minded about it and i’m sure she would be happy to talk to you about it and help you understand where she is coming from.
Really, it could be so much worse!!
ok well, if it bothers u, and u dont want to talk to her about it because of what u think he reaction might be then..forget about her..she cant be all that attractive to u if u dont like the weird fetish. it might not work out with u 2, so .. jus leave it and move on..
but then again..u might be wrong with what u think her reaction will be..jus TRY and talk to her atleast
and if her reaction is what u say it will be then..she doesnt seem like the right person for u anyway
umm…(o.o);
Last time. VOTE!!!!
YES or NO ~ *no maybies plz*
So she likes feet. So what? Didn’t you say “SHE’S F***ING HOT!!”?
Buy sandals or something. Live a little. Tolerance, understanding and compromise are wonderful things to foster. Especially when “F***ING HOT” ladies are involved.
Look on the bright side, at least she’s not coprophagic. That you know of.
Yes, you big baby! Look, go get yourself a pedicure and wow her!
If after a few dates it still freaks you out, move on but surely it’s worth giving it a go. You never know…..
Talk to the girl. Broaden your horizons. Who knows where it could all lead.
ok i change my vote cuz i agree with bex =D
…(-_-).. YES wins.. omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg,,,
blahhhhh, oki.. I’ll go for it..
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…… (o_o)
if it doesnt work out, and something rly embarrassing happens, i’ll come to haunt u guys…*points finger*
(o_o) i think i just got an image on my mind.. and its disturbingly kinky…
If it doesn’t work out, send me her number ;) Aaaaahhhhrooooogggaaahhhhh!
ok 88 you’ve just given new thought to putting the boot in someones butt!
You guys oughta all hook up and bring along a vidocamera. And boots. Big, big boots. I guarantee I could sell lots of copies.
paranoiaman. you should go to a fetish club and find a wolf who has a thing for facial hair.
…omg LOL! boots are weird, the only time i wore one wus when i gogo danced on a boat cruise XD
Boots are weird? Then, Sir, I am PROUD to be called a weirdo. Which is fortunate, all things considered.
And I have a but a mere smidgen of facial hair, which shall begone next time I bother my lazy ar$e to shave.And I can’t go to a fetish club for fear I’d never, ever want to leave.
The hair on me ‘ead falls down over my eyes, though
… luckly, i’m “body”hairless, and i’m not a bigfan of facial hair lol
No, seriously. Too much superhero exposure (oh, madam!) as a child. Left me with a ruinous fascination for tight, shiny clothes. And big boots. Yum.
Old enough to know better. Young enough to have some grey hair (thanks kids).
Four score and ten. Minus 53. Easier to ask forgiveness than permission.
I had a feeling I knew the answer from a previous post conversation. I took you for a wise man.
Oodles of boyish charm and a face made for smiling. Or slapping.
Wise man. A-ha-ha-ha-ha. Just ageing, dearie. But take as you feel the need.
it’s not simple age that has made you this cynical and witty. it’s all the crap life has thrown at you along the way.
People go to fetish clubs to explore and understand their own sexuality…
Foot fetish is strange but understandable, reflexology kinda shows that, since you have all these nerves in the hands and feet. Learn to give a better foot massage, get a book which does a breakdown of the nerves that are in different points of the feet and hands. Try what you’re comfortable with and see where it goes, don’t over extend your own boundaries, be honest, and you’ll probably do ok.
Most people who go to fetish clubs and have found their nitch, are use to other people feeling strange or repulsed by it.