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weird fetish?

My friends begged me to go to a fetish club with them, so i did, just for fun ,
I’m met this amazing person , this might sound rly shallow but SHE’S F’ING HOTTT!!! lol , we clicked instantly!
after getting to know her more, she tells me that she has an extreme foot fetish…
and i was like …(o_O)
anyway, i am rly attracted to this girl, and i hope things will grow between us in the future..but, the only thing thats bothering me/holding me back is the whole foot thing..

is there someway to ..i dunno, make her not….argh, this is so hard to put in words, but u get the point yea? … i ‘RLY’ like her, she likes me too and she likes feet, i dont like feet*not the way she does* ~

What am i supposed to do? (o_o)!?!?

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u_brighten_me offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

How can we help u with that?

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88blackmark offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

i have no clue, thats why i asked in the first place lol
…i geuss the question is , should i force myself to lose intresting and just forget about her?

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xNA offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 105 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (6 minutes after post)

well does her liking feet (the way she does) bother u? cuz if it does, then maybe talk to her?
and if it doesnt then well..jus cuz she has “an extreme foot fetish” doesnt mean u should too lol!
..just..just talk to her lol

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u_brighten_me offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

umm– yeah, i would do that

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Bex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Go with it! It could be soooooooo much worse!!

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88blackmark offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

yes it does bother me! and about talking to her… i’m kinda nervous to what she’ll say, she’ll proly hate me or get pissed of, since I’M the one who went to the club with no fetish~ i’m imagining she’ll be like … “u should suspect stuff like that from ppl in this club” or “thats every immature! to walk in here and mess around with ppl like me” and stuff like that

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Bex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

You don’t have to have a fetish to go to a fetish club.

Don’t mess her around and you wont get that kind of reaction.

Explain that you’re finding it a bit unusual but you’re willing to be open minded about it and i’m sure she would be happy to talk to you about it and help you understand where she is coming from.

Really, it could be so much worse!!

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xNA offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 105 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

ok well, if it bothers u, and u dont want to talk to her about it because of what u think he reaction might be then..forget about her..she cant be all that attractive to u if u dont like the weird fetish. it might not work out with u 2, so .. jus leave it and move on..
but then again..u might be wrong with what u think her reaction will be..jus TRY and talk to her atleast
and if her reaction is what u say it will be then..she doesnt seem like the right person for u anyway

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88blackmark offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

umm…(o.o);
Last time. VOTE!!!!

YES or NO ~ *no maybies plz*

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paranoiaman offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

So she likes feet. So what? Didn’t you say “SHE’S F***ING HOT!!”?
Buy sandals or something. Live a little. Tolerance, understanding and compromise are wonderful things to foster. Especially when “F***ING HOT” ladies are involved.
Look on the bright side, at least she’s not coprophagic. That you know of.

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xNA offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 105 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (21 minutes after post)

NO

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Bex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Yes, you big baby! Look, go get yourself a pedicure and wow her!

If after a few dates it still freaks you out, move on but surely it’s worth giving it a go. You never know…..

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paranoiaman offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Talk to the girl. Broaden your horizons. Who knows where it could all lead.

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xNA offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 105 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

ok i change my vote cuz i agree with bex =D

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88blackmark offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (24 minutes after post)

…(-_-).. YES wins.. omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg,,,
blahhhhh, oki.. I’ll go for it..

…… (o_o)

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xNA offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 105 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (25 minutes after post)

lol good for u!

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88blackmark offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (26 minutes after post)

if it doesnt work out, and something rly embarrassing happens, i’ll come to haunt u guys…*points finger*

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Bex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (27 minutes after post)

If it doesn’t work out at least you’ll have nice feet by then.

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xNA offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 105 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (28 minutes after post)

haha true!

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Bex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Think of it less like dating and more like a really long pedicure.

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88blackmark offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (30 minutes after post)

(o_o) i think i just got an image on my mind.. and its disturbingly kinky…

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paranoiaman offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (31 minutes after post)

If it doesn’t work out, send me her number ;) Aaaaahhhhrooooogggaaahhhhh!

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Bex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (31 minutes after post)

ok 88 you’ve just given new thought to putting the boot in someones butt!

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88blackmark offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (32 minutes after post)

LOL XD

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paranoiaman offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (34 minutes after post)

You guys oughta all hook up and bring along a vidocamera. And boots. Big, big boots. I guarantee I could sell lots of copies.

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paranoiaman offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (34 minutes after post)

Or just keep em. For myself.

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Bex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (35 minutes after post)

paranoiaman. you should go to a fetish club and find a wolf who has a thing for facial hair.

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88blackmark offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (35 minutes after post)

…omg LOL! boots are weird, the only time i wore one wus when i gogo danced on a boat cruise XD

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paranoiaman offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Boots are weird? Then, Sir, I am PROUD to be called a weirdo. Which is fortunate, all things considered.

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88blackmark offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (38 minutes after post)

warewolf weirdo person man thingy lol

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Bex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (38 minutes after post)

i’m guessing you’re completely bald paranoiaman.

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paranoiaman offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (39 minutes after post)

And I have a but a mere smidgen of facial hair, which shall begone next time I bother my lazy ar$e to shave.And I can’t go to a fetish club for fear I’d never, ever want to leave.

The hair on me ‘ead falls down over my eyes, though

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88blackmark offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (39 minutes after post)

Ohhh! lol!!

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88blackmark offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (40 minutes after post)

… luckly, i’m “body”hairless, and i’m not a bigfan of facial hair lol

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Bex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (40 minutes after post)

How young are you paranoiaman? I’m curious?

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paranoiaman offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (41 minutes after post)

No, seriously. Too much superhero exposure (oh, madam!) as a child. Left me with a ruinous fascination for tight, shiny clothes. And big boots. Yum.

Old enough to know better. Young enough to have some grey hair (thanks kids).

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Bex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (42 minutes after post)

Old enough to know better, young enough to get away with it anyway.

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paranoiaman offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (42 minutes after post)

Four score and ten. Minus 53. Easier to ask forgiveness than permission.

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88blackmark offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (43 minutes after post)

i’m geussing 40-50 :)

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Bex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (44 minutes after post)

I had a feeling I knew the answer from a previous post conversation. I took you for a wise man.

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paranoiaman offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (45 minutes after post)

Oodles of boyish charm and a face made for smiling. Or slapping.
Wise man. A-ha-ha-ha-ha. Just ageing, dearie. But take as you feel the need.

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Bex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (47 minutes after post)

it’s not simple age that has made you this cynical and witty. it’s all the crap life has thrown at you along the way.

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Times' gone mad offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Silver Spring, MD, US | 3 months ago (47 minutes after post)

People go to fetish clubs to explore and understand their own sexuality…

Foot fetish is strange but understandable, reflexology kinda shows that, since you have all these nerves in the hands and feet. Learn to give a better foot massage, get a book which does a breakdown of the nerves that are in different points of the feet and hands. Try what you’re comfortable with and see where it goes, don’t over extend your own boundaries, be honest, and you’ll probably do ok.

Most people who go to fetish clubs and have found their nitch, are use to other people feeling strange or repulsed by it.

http://www.findareflexologist.com/xma…

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