my life is crap
1) my boyfriend broke up with me cuase he was told i was 2 timing him with a lad in our class when i wasnt
2) most of the people in my year are at me and calling me names and saying how could you do this to him
3) i want to move skools now cause i cant cope with this
i dont no what to do plz help???????????
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Have you talked with your boyfriend? He didn’t believe you? If you were not 2-timing him like you said, then shrug it off. Must be tough having people namecall you, though. If you can not mind them, try to do so.
I hope you have your friends in your school. Stick with them. Who cares about what other people say when there are people who knows you better than them.
With this kind of problem, I don’t think moving school is the answer. Well, maybe it can serve as your final resort.
I just find it weird…. why are there so many affected “schoolmates” when relationship problems are supposed to be, well, between the two people involved…
First off, that does not make your life crap. Tell that story to a couple I know who’s two year old son wandered off and drowned in a pond 2 inches deep because he fell and hit his head. Or equally, tell that to my friend who’s mum just died. Or tell it to the many starving children in Africa who’s parents are dying with aids.
Your life is far from crap. And you need to realise that. High school (if thats what your in) is fickle and pathetic and stupid. But EVERYone goes through the same stuff. You need to deal with it, and not say stuff like ‘my life is crap’, because it just isn’t!
Stick firm and keep saying you didn’t do it, and show everyone else that you don’t care what they say, because you know the truth. Be confident, and don’t let them get you down.
i keep tell him iw asnt 2 timeing him but now hes not talkin 2 me
Well, that’s his loss. Who would want to go out with someone who trusts them so little, and doesn’t believe what they say?
tthanks for the help
sounds like you need justice this sounds so unfair
If it is a lad in your class that you are supposed to have been two timing your boyfriend with, what does this lad say? Surely he has said that it isn’t true? If he is claiming that you have been seeing him too then I think you should have some strong words with him, even ask your parents to speak to his parents. I am sure that if you threatened him with that he would confess his lie… (most people would rather die than have their parents informed about what they are up to).
If he is already on your side and saying it isn’t true then try and find out who is saying it’s true? Where did this lie originate? If there is no clear answer as to where it originated then it should be possible to reason it out with your boyfriend that this can’t be true.
you shouldnt of 2 timed him.
My hopeless existence.
I live a live that is so unbearably awful that I can find no other way to go on but to leave it behind, I see no rainbow or sunshine after the storm, I am forced to work for, and with, people who are not worthy to be considered as human, yet I am forced to bow down to them, as if they are my betters. I am stuck in a position I can see no way out of , my life has been one **** up after another I realise that I have screwed up my entire life and there is not a thing I can do to put it right. I do not sleep at night as I know that I will wake up the next day to my agonisingly awful existence. I have now come to realise that there will never be a fairytale ending to my life. Everyday I see worthless morons having fantastic lives and I realise these people are less than human and not worthy of the riches and adulation they receive, yet they have such a fantastic life which leaves me wondering why my existence is so terrible and what I have done to deserve the hand I am dealt. I have got to an age that it is impossible to reverse my terrible existence and even though I realise this I can not come to terms with it, I have no way out of this hell. I can only hope that there is nothing beyond this mortal coil as the thought of another tormented existence is too much to bear.
I need it all to stop…
Stupid posts like these make me want to just strangle myself and die
your life doesn’t sound too terrible.. i’ve had a lot worse happen in the last few months, several deaths, a messy break-up with someone i love very much, i’m no longer talking to my mum because she told me my Nan died the day after she was buried so that i wouldn’t take time off of uni to go to the funeral, my best mate is in hospital after a major car crash, my sister is pregnant and about to get a divorce.. but i refuse to let life beat me down. you can still choose to get out of bed and smile at the world.. life will not stop for you, if you pause for a moment it will pass you buy.. every day is an opportunity, a new start, a chance to make a difference and make something f your life. confronting hardship and facing up to potentially hurtful situations causes you to grow. i’ve found that having experienced hardship, the good times are so much better.
Sorry to say this, but chin up hun. life has hard stages, but without darkness there’s no light (if you get my gist). good luck with everything, growing up is hard, but the good things in life far outway the bad. xox
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