Love help: I have to scream shout and beat him to make him realise! - Help.com

that suxxx sorry i dont know what you can do but i love scream and scearm and scream that make me feel so sweet just relax little bit and try to have fun

he sounds like a control freak turning all horrible, then to this sweet guy,
he won’t change, please don’t blind urself from what is really there, because what is REALLY there sounds pretty grim.
he won’t change.

u can either put up with how things are now but he won’t change
or leave him and get on with ur life.

hard but true sad but true life and love hurt

I am sorry that you are in a situation such as that. In my opinion the healthiest option would be to leave the man. You are only 15 dang girl you have so much more time left in your youth. There are millions of other men out there as well. I don’t know take some time and just be a kid maybe. Everyone wants to grow up so fast and then after you have grown you want to revert back to your childhood because you realize it wasn’t all that you envisioned it would be. Also excellent job of getting off the heroine. It has taken my Dad 9 years. Also if the guy beats you up or slaps you or anything you need to get the hell out. That pisses me off just reading about it. If I knew you and lived close by I would slap the hell out of him. My wife was beat by her first husband and I see the trauma that it has caused first hand. You can find someone who won’t hit you and who will truly love you for yourself.

I really think in your situation, if you want to be happy, healthy and live a good life, you should move on. Get this guy out of your life, and try to concentrate on getting your life together. If I read correctly you stated you were 15, you’re way too young to have to go through all this drama, and actually, no one ever should. Sweety, there are plenty of other guys out there that will be better than him and will love you and treat you with the respect you deserve. If you don’t break the cycle now, it will never end. Good luck! :)

P.S. I think you’re gorgeous, so I hope the way you look isn’t one of the reasons you’re depressed…. which seems to be the case for most of us girls.

We’ll see you again, I imagine. Let us know when you realize that dating a dealer is probably not a good idea.

could i possibly ask your first name?

would your first name by chance be Alyssa?

like KC and JOJO!

lol your from washington state arent you? i can tell by the depressing looking rainy picture.

Ok ok first off dump him cause no offense but he sounds like a JERK!! And you should not be pregant at 15.

don’t dump him! Promote him!

pray to jesus. he will come down and smite the sonovabit**

so then… hire a hit man?

Everyone deals with things in their own way. like Nike says, just do it!