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I’m just having a really, really bad day today. Lots of hurt and emotional anguish. Totally my own fault, though.

I guess I don’t have a question or anything. Yeah, I admit it. I’m digging for good vibes and things. Heh.

I hope everyone else is doing well.

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anothernikki changed the tags on this post: they were "Emotion, question, hope, Today, hurt, admission, guess, yeah, Fault, Digging" 4 months, 3 weeks ago.

Help me with: Happy vs Unhappy
scoffey offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

there is always tomorrow to have a better day. you’ll probably get over whatever it is. just try not focusing on it.

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offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Live in the moment, what is good about now?

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xNA offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 182 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

yeah
there is always tomorrow to have a better day. you’ll probably get over whatever it is. just try not focusing on it.
and live in the moment, what is good about now?
lol sorry u guys i had to steal your words but i had nothing to say…im stumped..
=D
but your words hav twice the impact now!

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elysium online Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 143 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Everyone has a bad day now and then. The important thing is not to dwell on it otherwise it is going to pull you down. Like all he other people have said, look at the good things that you have going for you. Sometimes it helps just to talk about the good things in life.

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ixlovexian offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Hatfield, F8, GB | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

xNA-me wrote:
yeah
there is always tomorrow to have a better day. you’ll probably get over whatever it is. just try not focusing on it.
and live in the moment, what is good about now?
lol sorry u guys i had to steal your words but i had nothing to say…im stumped..
=D
but your words hav twice the impact now!

lol triple the impact =D hehe

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xNA offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 182 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

hehe
CLEVER!

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ixlovexian offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Hatfield, F8, GB | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

lol =D

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MamaBear {Felicity} offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 23 minutes after post)

Don’t Quit

When things go wrong as they sometimes will;
When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill;
When the funds are low, and the debts are high;
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh;
When care is pressing you down a bit
Rest if you must, but don’t you quit.

Success is failure turned inside out;
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt;
And you can never tell how close you are;
It may be near when it seems afar.
So, stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit -
It’s when things go wrong you musn’t quit :)

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MamaBear {Felicity} offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 26 minutes after post)

Hi, I haven’t heard from you in a while:( If you like the Dont quit poem and need it again its on my profile.Do you want to talk about your day? you know this is the place to vent :)

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2greeneyes offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Midvale, UT, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 48 minutes after post)

Hi Nikki,
Hang in there hon. Sometimes when your down you feel like you weigh 400 lbs. The air is thick to breath and not worth your effort.
But when things are right, you feel your heart beat and the wind in your face and you truly feel greatful to be alive and lucky to be in the moment.
Come back around another day, anotherNikki.

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2greeneyes offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Midvale, UT, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (19 hours, 51 minutes after post)

Hi Nikki,
Wanted to check back and see how you are doing? Thought of you and hope you are well. Anytime, you shout. I’ll answer, promise. Hope your heart is lighter and feelings are coming to words for you. I hope you’ll share. I care how you are. Greeneyes

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2greeneyes offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Midvale, UT, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (19 hours, 53 minutes after post)

Love your poem Kimkriss,
Thanks for sharing such hope and love.

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anothernikki offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (20 hours, 23 minutes after post)

Thanks everyone. I’m just going through something right now utterly horrible. I’m sorry or not sharing more, but if you knew, you’d all turn yuor backs on me like almost everyone else has.

I have days where I just want to die and days where I’m doing alright. Yesterday it’s kind of obvious where I was. Today I’m somewhere in between.

Thanks again everyone. Loved the poem Kimkriss!

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anothernikki offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (20 hours, 24 minutes after post)

anothernikki wrote:
I’m sorry or not sharing more, but if you knew, you’d all turn yuor backs on me like almost everyone else has.

And justly so. I don’t blame anyone.

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magic dust offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (20 hours, 43 minutes after post)

anothernikki wrote:

anothernikki wrote:
I’m sorry or not sharing more, but if you knew, you’d all turn yuor backs on me like almost everyone else has.
And justly so. I don’t blame anyone.

i’m preety sure we wouldn’t turn our backs on u

but if u fon’t want to talk bot it that’s cool

but just rember help’s always here if u need anything

best of luck x

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magic dust offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (20 hours, 43 minutes after post)

sorry
meant to say don’t

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2greeneyes offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Midvale, UT, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

Hi Nikki,
In between huh? For me, that’s still not good. It means a state of unrest, your head swimming with thoughts and emotions unbalanced.

Turn my back on you? No. I, and everyone, has their bads. Moments, actions, decisions, thoughts, words and deeds that we regret. Did you screw up? Did ya?

Lets get it resolved honey. Lets get you all fixed up here and do what you need to do to move forward.

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2greeneyes offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Midvale, UT, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

What are you going through that is so “horrible?”. Shout if you like.
Horrible is a very strong word. Right?

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ambivispice offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

I love how you admit that you’re digging for good vibes- when I’m in a bad mood I can’t even admit it to myself!

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anothernikki offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

Yeah, why not just be up front? Hah!

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ambivispice offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

eh- I feel like that a lot- especially around the end of the school term. Stress is a killer.

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meg offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 month after post)

yea anothernikki im dying to know whats so bad that everyone has turned against u …nothing is ever dat bad a trouble shared is a trouble halved and all that..

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desdinova41 offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 month after post)

Whatever it may be…I can GURANTEE you, I wouldn’t turn my back on you. I don’t judge people. The fact that you’re here is a step in the right direction. But it’s difficult to offer appropriate help if we have no idea of the nature of your anguish. I respect your right to privacy though and wish you the very best in your healing. Ultimately, the choice to languish upon negatives is up to you. Remember, you do not have to be a victim to it, you only need the time to free yourself from it! Hang in there!

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