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i just walked in on my boi frien in my brothers room…

so i decied to spy on them, they said sum real wiered things then out of nowwhere they started mking out!!!! please give me some advise!!! (p.s. im 16)

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scoffey offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 minutes after post)

wow. i guess the only thing to do is to talk to them.

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xNA offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 minutes after post)

what the bloody hell..
um well, u need to confront them both
cuz theyre very obviously gay
and so..now uve found out..ask them if its true (yeah i know dumb..)
but ask and see what they say
and tell them u saw them
but dont tell anyone else unless they want u to which i doubt cuz they might not want ppl to know..u know..

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Rowass (The Great) offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 minutes after post)

That could make a hella funny movie.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (4 minutes after post)

well, what am i supposed to tell them? “i was spying on you and saw you guys make out!” I cant…

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logout offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Tell them you went to come in to say something and then you saw them

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scoffey offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (6 minutes after post)

well just ask them if theres something wierd going on because you have been noticing some things. yea maybe you should break up with him. its probably a good idea

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WHATABIGNICKNAM offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (7 minutes after post)

well it looks like your single again

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xNA offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (10 minutes after post)

if i saw my brother and my boyfriend making out..i think id confront them there and then!

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Emo/Goth/Proud offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (11 minutes after post)

they could be experimentin my bf used 2 kiss guys in front of me n coz im bi i used 2 get with ova girls when he was around so just ask them and be a bit creeped out coz its ur brother

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

well, maybe i should but i dont wanna make them unhappy….

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WHATABIGNICKNAM offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (13 minutes after post)

hmmm yes a three some with your brother we call them red necks in england

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (13 minutes after post)

hughhhh…. thanx guys ill work on it…

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scoffey offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (15 minutes after post)

i doesn’t really matter if u make them unhappy. they made YOU unhappy.

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Rowass (The Great) offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (18 minutes after post)

Sorry that we couldn’t help you to much, this is just really funcking weird.

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michaelarocks9 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (25 minutes after post)

ya i no… but i think im gunna tell my parents but my boi friend is OFFICIALLY dumped!

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WHATABIGNICKNAM offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (27 minutes after post)

no tell them first they both owe you an apology at the least

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GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (28 minutes after post)

i mean the borther and your x tell them you know all

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (52 minutes after post)

kk

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (7 hours, 30 minutes after post)

ur bf gay?!?!????

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magic dust offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (19 hours, 34 minutes after post)

delila wrote:
ur bf gay?!?!????

seems lk it lol

WHATABIGNICKNAM wrote:
no tell them first they both owe you an apology at the least

yeh i know i late but me finks dat u should talk 2 ur bor first.. cuz it mite b rrr embrasin 4 him if u tell ur parents 1st!
n definatly dump him
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dialogue_missing offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 day, 19 hours after post)

WOW! thats some wierd ****. wow! um i think u shud confront them on it and ask wat is going on and see wat happens and u shud deffinatly break up with him apparently hed rather be going out with ur brother

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♥Miki♥ offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 days, 5 hours after post)

My advice, castrate them both. He’s your brother, you have the right. Claim it as a family disagreement. He’s your boyfriend, and he cheated.

Simple.

God, I hate cheaters.

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dialogue_missing offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 days, 19 hours after post)

♥Miki♥ wrote:
My advice, castrate them both. He’s your brother, you have the right. Claim it as a family disagreement. He’s your boyfriend, and he cheated.

Simple.

God, I hate cheaters.

i think its a little more difficult then that. no offense. but he did cheat with her brother thats jus wrong i would feel used like he was only using me to get to him

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♥Miki♥ offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 days, 19 hours after post)

No offense taken. Yeah, that’s another point. I thought it would be clear in what I posted. The point is, the brother, should have known he was with her, and the boyfriend should have known he was taken. End of story. They both did a rotten thing.

Yes, it’s using, and it’s cruel. That all entwines with the other stuff. I just thought it went without saying. I should have been clearer. Sorry.

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dialogue_missing offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 days, 19 hours after post)

no you were clear i jus thought i would state the obvious

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