life help: my mum keeps on comin round 2 my house tellin me wot 2 and how - Help.com

her loss and your sons,she might want to grow up a bit

I dont know how you treat your child but I mean the way you are spelling doesnt seem to me that you have maturity level to raise a child but thats what I get right off the bat from your spelling. Lets say Im wrong, your mom is just doing what she has been used to doing and see’s you are not raising the child she is. The best thing would not be to yell at her but sit her down and tell her that you are going to do it your way and you understand what shes doing and thank her but its your life.

can you tell us what she is having issues with about you raising your son? just wondering what she may be seeing that you arent.. not that im sticking up for your mom.. but it would make it a bit clearer on why she is doing what she is doing..

my mother is the same way, and I’m in my thirties. She was trying to control my life then wanted to control my daughters. My daughter is 10 now, and she still is difficult at times. I got other family members involved to tell her to back-off. She is a control freak with everyone, but somehow it seems that she has difficulty with her own life. Don’t let her do this to you. I would write her a letter, and tell her that her she is important family member to you and your son, and she had the opportunity to raise children. Tell her she did a wonderful job raising you, however it’s your turn now. You believe that you are competent enough to know what is best for your child. Also, tell her that you find it quite stressful that she doesn’t think that your capable of being a good mother and it hurts your feelings. That you didn’t have the baby just to have someone leaning over your shoulder telling you that everything your doing is wrong. I told my mother she’s acting like a child when she shut me out.

Your not doing anything wrong. I’m sure your a good mother, and i believe you want to do everything you can to do what is best for your child. Don’t sweat it!