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What do you do when you feel like you don’t have any friends?

Let’s see, i only have about 9 to 10 friends. I used to have more, but then i found out that they were talking behind my back. They were all saying lies that I cussed to them in korean, which I really didn’t. help?

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

if they were talking behind your back then they are definitely not your friends. be happy with the friends you have… you know what they say. its better to have 1 true friend then 100 people who call themselves your friend

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ayc offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

9-10 is kinda cool amount. even if you do have problems with some, it means you are likeable and will make new friends all the time in the future!
do you have any best friends? the really important ones? who know you did not cuss anyone? i bet they know you didnt, and still really like you?!

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marshmelow offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

thxn ayc. and yes i do have a few true friends. in the 9-10 thing.

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mikedavidson089 offline Verified User (5 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Omaha, NE, US | 5 years, 1 month ago (25 minutes after post)

I didn’t really have any friends until sixth grade and if there is anything I learned from that it is that you just have to relax and let things take their natural course.

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rach_07 offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years, 1 month ago (29 minutes after post)

friendships are all about quality not quantity! im the kind of person who prefers to have a close circle of friends i can truly call friends and depend on, than have lots of “fair-weather” friends that cant be found when the going gets tough!
make the most of the friendships uve got, its a precious thing in life and if uve got good quality ones it doesnt matter how many of them u have!

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ayc offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 1 month ago (57 minutes after post)

the guys are right, especially rach. for example, i guess im much older than you, but even i have 3 friends who have been my friends for a very very long time. the rest seem to change and stuff as time goes on. still miss everyone in a way though, even when we did fall out over stupid stuff, we get back intouch later, as we get older and wiser.

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