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Otis, OR, US

I’m home.

For those of you that didn’t see my last post, I separated from my husband. Fortunately, we were only apart for three weeks and we talked every day, many times twice or more a day and we finally got to a point where we decided that if we wanted to really make any more progress it would be best face to face. Things have been tough since I’ve been home. I immediately started having panic attacks and rage problems all over again (before I even got home, actually, I had my first panic attack about five hours into my seven hour drive home.) But, we are determined to try to work things out and most of our time together has been good.

In other good (hopefully) news, I went to the first night of two nights of auditions for the local summer play today. It went extremely well; I was not asked to sit out any of the readings. I’ve worked with this director before, too, and she seems to like me so that is good as well. If they offer me a part though, I will have to decide if I can handle practices 4 to 5 nights a week from now until June, and then performances from June 10 through August 30 three times a week. Summer shows can be really exhausting, and I’m not sure if this would be a good distraction from all my other troubles, or if it would just make things more stressful.

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hockeymaniac500 offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 50 #
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It sounds like things are looking up for you. I wish you the best of luck with your hubby.

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florie offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
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Yes, this sounds like a good thing. Always good to stay with a hubby you like. :)

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hockeymaniac500 offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 50 #
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if he is her hubby I hope it is a wee bit more than like lol

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reiningchi offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Little Rock, AR, US | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

I think you should. :)

Good luck

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florie offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

hockeymaniac500 wrote:
if he is her hubby I hope it is a wee bit more than like lol

“love,” then

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hockeymaniac500 offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 50 #
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florie wrote:

hockeymaniac500 wrote:
if he is her hubby I hope it is a wee bit more than like lol
“love,” then

much better. =)

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Silverwings offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 108 #
Adolphus, KY, US | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

Welcome back !!! (((hugs))) I’m sorry about the seperation… but, hopeful with the working it out… :)

The panic attacks can be brought under control.. My sister had them, but, with counseling, medication & prayer… she made it…

The rage too…. can be dealt with….. are you in therapy?

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Sai_Pie offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
Chicago, IL, US | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

WELCOME HOME!!!! *huggsssssssssssssssssssss*

Did you know that I love you? :)

You’re like a second mom. X)

*hugs*

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Nyx (invisible) offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Otis, OR, US | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

Silverwings wrote:
Welcome back !!! (((hugs))) I’m sorry about the seperation… but, hopeful with the working it out… :)

The panic attacks can be brought under control.. My sister had them, but, with counseling, medication & prayer… she made it…

The rage too…. can be dealt with….. are you in therapy?

I was but I had to “quit” when it started getting too expensive. :(

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Dan TL offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 51 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 52 minutes after post)

Ahh, its great to hear your doing better. I hope things get even better for you.

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nikko online Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 56 #
US | 1 month, 1 week ago (5 days, 1 hour after post)

Wow, I hope you got the part and I hope things keep getting better. I used to have panic attacks, it was horrible :( You aren’t alone.

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