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Im in a big mess and i don’t know what to do i love

mi boyfriend but i can’t take it anymore he total change when we started to live together in his sister house.. he thinks im lying about everything and he also thinks im cheating on him.. and these past couple of days when i found out i had a family problem and i need to fly back home he starts to tell me at im mess with him and at im not coming back i would like to come but i don’t know me and his sister have problem and i honestly don’t want to live with her anymore..i do want to be with him but i just don’t know cause mi family needs me..help me :’(

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aeolian mode offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 Add Friend #
Rocklin, CA, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Hes insecure.. Let him open his feelings to you and assure him you are not playing him..That should help

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1 year, 6 months ago (7 minutes after post)

i try it but he don’t believe it im so hurt at he thinks at

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aeolian mode offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 Add Friend #
Rocklin, CA, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Thats sad….. tooo bad for him…

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Try to sound serious when talking to him

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1 year, 6 months ago (17 minutes after post)

for do u sound serious when ur scared of the person.. u know how boys react when u don’t say something they want to hear

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cattail offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 Add Friend #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Go to your family…. it sounds like he’s being a real jerk and you’re in a bad situation with him right now anyway. Your family needs you… focus on that.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (5 hours, 40 minutes after post)

He sounds like the kind of guy that moves from paranoia to abuse. These are the first tell-tale signs of domestic violence, he needs to get help before it gets any worse!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (4 days, 9 hours after post)

family always comes first my boyfriend is the same way we also live together and it has changed things terribly yu have no space and yu just can’t do the same thing yu did before without being suspected of anything..honestly if i was yu try and move back in with yur family its a mental break yu both need..if yu live too far and dont like long distant relationships see if the yu can have a room mate and rent an apartment on ur own..trust me yull feel so much better about yourself..in the beginning your going to be hesitate we all are but its a healthy move your going to have to make//

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