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how do i become less uptight around my friends?

for some reason, i struggle making friends and being popular amoung them. everyone tells me im always uptight! how do i just be myself and loosen up? how do i have fun? how can i be hyper like all of the rest of my friends? how can i be like an average 13 year old?

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dotspot offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Up above
Aliens hover
Making home movies
For the folks back home

Of all these weird creatures
Who lock up their spirits
Drill holes in themselves
And live for their secrets

They’re all uptight
Uptight..

I wish that they’d swoop down in a country lane
Late at night when I’m driving
Take me on board their beautiful ship
Show me the world as I’d love to see it

I’d tell all my friends
But they’d never believe
They’d think that I’d finally lost it completely

I’d show them the stars
And the meaning of life
They’d shut me away
But I’d be all right
All right..

I’m just uptight
Uptight..

(Radiohead, Subterranean Homesick Alien)

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1 year, 6 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Life, it’s ever so strange
It’s so full of change
Think that you’ve worked it out
then BANG
Right out of the blue
Something happens to you
To throw you off course
and then you

Breakdown
Yeah you breakdown
Well don’t you breakdown
Listen to me
Because

It’s just a ride, it’s just a ride
no need to run, no need to hide
It’ll take you round and round
Sometimes you’re up
sometimes you’re down
It’s just a ride, it’s just a ride
don’t be scared
don’t hide your eyes
It may feel so real inside
but don’t forget it’s just a ride

Truth, we don’t wanna hear
It’s too much to take
Don’t like to feel out of control
So we make our plans
Ten times a day
And when they don’t go
our way we

Breakdown
Yeah we breakdown
Well don’t you breakdown
Listen to me
Because

It’s just a ride, it’s just a ride
no need to run, no need to hide
It’ll take you round and round
Sometimes you’re up
sometimes you’re down
It’s just a ride, it’s just a ride
don’t be scared
don’t hide your eyes
It may feel so real inside
but don’t forget it’s just a ride

Slowly, oh so very slowly
except that
there’s no getting off
So live it, just gotta go with it
coz this ride’s, never gonna stop

Breakdown
Don’t you breakdown
No need to breakdown
No need at all
Because

It’s just a ride, it’s just a ride
no need to run, no need to hide
It’ll take you all around
Sometimes you’re up
sometimes you’re down
It’s just a ride, it’s just a ride
don’t be scared now
dry your eyes
It may feel so real inside
but don’t forget enjoy the ride.

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Twilight_Fan_For_Lif offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 months after post)

Easy. Just try to relax, and have a positive thinking. Do something exciting, and eating a ton of chocolate obviously helps xD

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (7 months, 3 weeks after post)

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

do nothing……….nothing….
just talk…..smile……
if something is exciting , feel it, dont supress
normal reaction …. u know everything allready

i hope i got 2 u

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