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If only we new the future a head of time!

I don’t know if anybody will reply to this, but this is mainly for me to get some stress out of my sytem. You know when you have those days when everything seems perfect, and then all of a sudden you get the shock of your life. Well today i told my girl friend that i didn’t want to be with her anymore because of the way we had been acting around one another. We couldn’t be around each other for more than an hour before we started to argue. The point is now that we are broken up, i can’t seem to stop missing her. I realized how much i actually loved her. Some people might say its my fault that i lost her, and others might think other wise. How do you make something work if you can’t do nothing but fight. I get so sick and tired of the arguements, and i can’t understand why i miss her so much. Is it just because she’s all i know now or have i just lost my mind. I know this just another one of those relationship problems, but this page is called help so i thought id give it a try.

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calyne8 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (5 minutes after post)

No one can tell you if it was true love or if you just miss her because you’re used to her being around. You have to figure that out. However, I heard a quote recently, it’s something like…”Just because you fight a lot does not mean you do not love each other, and just because you love each other doesn’t mean you don’t fight.” I say, give yourself a few days and think about the whole situation, both the good and the bad of being together and apart. If after a few days you realize you really do want to be with her, give her a call. If it’s meant to be it will work out. Another quote a friend always tells me is…”It’s always ok in the end, if it’s not ok, it’s not the end.” That helps me get through a lot.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

there are too many paths of possible outcomes, it is impossible to read them all.

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Help me with: I’ve been feeling empty lately.
dormanchik2 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Greenville, SC, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (4 days, 3 hours after post)

i think you and her should sit down and talk about it and see what makes yall argue
and if you 2 really love each other then yall will work everything out most couples argue its part of life…me nad my boyfriend argue and cuss at each other but we always say sorry and work everything out.and we been together for a long 7 months and a bunch of weeks. nad we love each other to death.we are planning on getting married on our 12 graduation and we are only in 9th grade going to 10th and he is in djj right now doing time and im waiting on him and hes waiting on me.we were each others first.
hope you do whats right anad hope it ges good for you 2

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Help me with: okay i just wanted to say hey people and thank you for all those people that have gave me advise i greatly appreicate it.i

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