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My psychiatrist diagnosed me with bipolar

at the end of April and since starting on the medication I have been feeling much better and people have noticed a difference in how I behave. But the problem I am presented with is that I also see a counselor who, for some reason or another, refuses to accept this diagnosis as a possibility. Does anyone have any advice on how I can convince her that I am bipolar?

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Fizz online Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 43 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

I doubt that you will be able to convince her, but I would question her about why she discounts your psychiatrist. It seems very counter productive to your treatment.

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Emilie T offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Hey Alice :-)
Do you mind me asking you something? Why is it you feel that you need this label?

Just because a psychiatrist has said that is what you are you don’t have to accept it.

To be honest though, it surprises me that she would over ride someone in a higher profession…i’m sure she has her reasons though :-)

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4 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

A counselor can’t decide against a psychiatrist’s diagnose. That is just wrong.

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Emilie T wrote:
Hey Alice :-) Do you mind me asking you something? Why is it you feel that you need this label?Just because a psychiatrist has said that is what you are you don’t have to accept it.To be honest though, it surprises me that she would over ride someone in a higher profession…i’m sure she has her reasons though :-)

I feel that I need this label in my treatment so I can get the treatment necessary for my diagnosis.

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

otherwise I don’t need it. But I feel that in my treatment that the labels are necessary.

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Emilie T offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Fair enough…. :-) Makes sense….! I’ve been in a similar position so I kinda know how you feel, it does help to give it a name. ( i haven’t had one and sometimes think my problems would be MUCH easier to deal with if I did!)

She should listen to you…has she said why she disagrees with you?

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

no, she hasn’t. Although, she did say something though that lead me to believe that she didn’t want to change my diagnosis due to the amount of paperwork it would entail.

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ɐʇɐɯɹǝɟ.Suc online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 97 #
Luton, I1, GB | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

maybe because the meds? so she thinks no?

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Fizz online Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 43 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

The_Alice wrote:
no, she hasn’t. Although, she did say something though that lead me to believe that she didn’t want to change my diagnosis due to the amount of paperwork it would entail.

That is complete nonsense! You need another counselor, because she doesn’t appear to care and you need a counselor that will actually care.

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Emilie T offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

but she should change it if it has come from a psychiatrist surely?! Silly lady…these people should be working together …..!

johnstc wrote:
Yeh, its better this way. Think if people had their own custom diagnosis, how would u like bein called a biposkitsopyromaniac?

Custom diagnosis I think you are on to something there johnstc…….!!

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Fizz wrote:

The_Alice wrote:
no, she hasn’t. Although, she did say something though that lead me to believe that she didn’t want to change my diagnosis due to the amount of paperwork it would entail.
That is complete nonsense! You need another counselor, because she doesn’t appear to care and you need a counselor that will actually care.

now that I think about it she said she has never seen me manic AND that to change my diagnosis and have it be wrong would be a lot of paperwork.

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

But when I told her I have been she questioned me thoroughly.

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sans-sans offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 139 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

that darned paperwork.

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

Exactly!

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

Sans, I am getting ready to shove my hockey stick up her butt!

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sans-sans offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 139 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

The_Alice wrote:
Sans, I am getting ready to shove my hockey stick up her butt!

Thanks for the warning. Shaking off this counselor seems like shaking off a deer fly. She just keeps coming back and irritating you. Do you have any options to replace her?

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Emilie T offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

The_Alice wrote:
Sans, I am getting ready to shove my hockey stick up her butt!

perhaps you should…maybe she would be better at playing hockey with her *** than being a useful counsellor!

sans-sans offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 139 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

The_Alice wrote:
Sans, I am getting ready to shove my hockey stick up her butt!

oh, oh, I thought you said MY butt lol!

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

Emilie, I had to mark that reply as quotable

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

sansceriph wrote:

The_Alice wrote:
Sans, I am getting ready to shove my hockey stick up her butt!

Thanks for the warning. Shaking off this counselor seems like shaking off a deer fly. She just keeps coming back and irritating you. Do you have any options to replace her?

Not really. My insurance is sooo picky.

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Emilie T offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

why thank you!…that is my first every quotable :-) !

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sans-sans offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 139 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

The headline of your post reads, “My psychiatrist diagnosed me with bipolar at the end”.

If you go through with the hockey stick idea your counselor will be “bipolar at the end”!

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

I have been tracking my moods, both the ups and downs, and I see her today, so with any luck the mood tracking will change her mind.

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ɐʇɐɯɹǝɟ.Suc online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 97 #
Luton, I1, GB | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

sansceriph wrote:
The headline of your post reads, “My psychiatrist diagnosed me with bipolar at the end”. If you go through with the hockey stick idea your counselor will be “bipolar at the end”!

no i think she’ll be antisocial

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

sansceriph wrote:
The headline of your post reads, “My psychiatrist diagnosed me with bipolar at the end”. If you go through with the hockey stick idea your counselor will be “bipolar at the end”!

hahahahaha. That’s great!

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

ɐʇɐɯɹǝɟ.Suc wrote:

sansceriph wrote:
The headline of your post reads, “My psychiatrist diagnosed me with bipolar at the end”. If you go through with the hockey stick idea your counselor will be “bipolar at the end”!
no i think she’ll be antisocial

Thanks for the laugh!

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

She’ll probably just be polar at the end.

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 241 #
Littleton, CO, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Why does it matter if your counselor understands that you are “bipolar” if the medication is already helping with that? She stills sees something about you and might be able to help with that something.

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sans-sans offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 139 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

You should see what I just shouted shie!
**blushes**

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Michael Leibman wrote:
Why does it matter if your counselor understands that you are “bipolar” if the medication is already helping with that? She stills sees something about you and might be able to help with that something.

It matters because she could help me better if she was working with me on the correct diagnosis.

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

it is like treating someone for schizophrenia when all they are is OCD.

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

both really bad but treating one for schizophrenia isn’t going to solve the OCD.

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sans-sans offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 139 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

Or restless leg syndrome.
“I’m still depressed.”
“Yes but your legs are still.”
“You moron, they were still to begin with!”

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 241 #
Littleton, CO, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

The terms get so hazy and so many people with “mental illnesses” are misdiagnosed over and over it’d seem more important that she just sees who you are. Especially if it’s a talk-therapy thing rather than prescribing more medications. But you know more about counsellors, I don’t.

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

Michael Leibman wrote:
The terms get so hazy and so many people with “mental illnesses” are misdiagnosed over and over it’d seem more important that she just sees who you are. Especially if it’s a talk-therapy thing rather than prescribing more medications. But you know more about counsellors, I don’t.

Yea, well I understand where you are coming from. I just have found over the years that the labels do actually help me get better treatment.

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 241 #
Littleton, CO, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

Oh, you could write it out. Take the description from the dsm and list the symptoms from your own life and explain how the medication helped with that. Then maybe she could read it over when you’re not there and get the picture.

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

Michael Leibman wrote:
Oh, you could write it out. Take the description from the dsm and list the symptoms from your own life and explain how the medication helped with that. Then maybe she could read it over when you’re not there and get the picture.

That might work! Thanks!

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 241 #
Littleton, CO, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

No problem. You do express yourself very well in writing, at least here,.

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Puck You offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 147 #
Spokane, WA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

:)

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