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this girl doesnt make any sense to me.

i met her a couple weeks ago, and she introduced herself to me, then i started talking to her online, which went pretty well, got her number and asked her to hang out this weekend and she said “yeah sure”. so then last night i see her at a party, and only thing she says is hey to me then walks away. does she want to hang out? or was she just being nice and not turning me down?

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so_sienzz offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 minute after post)

she could be just trying to grab your attention and be mysterious, so you would be more eager to see her. xD

-peace out-

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squallz211 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (5 minutes after post)

maybe she was shy. was it the first time you saw her in person. it weird meeting in person after you’ve known them only on the internet.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Forget about her, if she was interested, she’d make more effort in trying to get to know you better , save yourself from getting hurt and move on….

Girl_7139

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (31 minutes after post)

you could try the direct approach and ask her as politely as possible why she ignored you ! If she doesn’t give a good or convincing reason then forget about her…

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1 year, 6 months ago (35 minutes after post)

its worth the try, thanks!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (10 hours, 4 minutes after post)

my guess ,is she was being nice to you to keep from hurting you. She may not be interested or just doesn’t like to show PDA. in most ways it because of reputations or to look avaliable to anyone eles.

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1 year, 6 months ago (22 hours, 30 minutes after post)

So i dont really see her thatmuch, should i call her and be like what was up at that party? i barely saw you.

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