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my life has gone to hell , and im tired of hearing

everyone tell me that they have been threw the same thing knowing they dont have a clue, im tired of being used and im tired of doing all the drugs n achol thinkin things will get better until recently i figured out drugs n all the beer in the world wont help but only make my problems worse , ive been thinking alot latly about just takin the easy way out, and im very close to my breaking point, i just want to die …..noone would notice…..or even care….im threw with everything i cant take this life of mine no more……i need help this is my last cry out for help….i dont know what else to do……

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crazymomofboys offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (38 minutes after post)

Easy way out for who? I agree w/ Raptor, suicide is a one way ticket to hell… and that doesn’t sound so easy to me.

Sounds like you’ve made a good start realizing that drugs and alcohol are not the answer. Hon, I wish I knew what the answer was… I’d be happy to give it to you!

Most of us have had those thought run threw our heads at one point in our lives. Even when I completely hate my life, I try to remember there are always people that have it worse than I do.

I got on this site to vent about an abusive relationship only to receive advice from a woman who not only suffered much worse in the past, but she’s currently dealing with a tumor. She’s sitting at home with a tumor while I’m crying over a guy and she’s offering me advice!

All info I’m sure you don’t care to know. I’d never say I understand. I can only say you’re not the only one

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heather* offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Don’t give up! It’s not worth it! People would be upset whether you think so or not! You can give up the drugs and alcohol, make friends, and get through it. If you can, look through the phone book and seek some help. It’s out there, you just have to find it.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 6 months ago (50 minutes after post)

Hi,so your ready to start over.Good.Good 4 you.Open your mind,your heart and ask God to make you anew.Say;Father God I ask for forgiveness in trying to go my own way,I don’t want this life anymore,take it,take it and show me the way Lord, I accept you, your son and your ways.Thank you Lord,In Jesus name -Amen

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Anonymous #
1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

Hey, whats going on? You see this as a bad thing? Your done with the drugs and alcohol.Thats super.That took a lot of courage to admit that.You came to the right place my friend,you can let it all out here.Just let us know a little more of what happpened and we will listen.

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

Do you want to take the easy way,the coward way? or are you ready to do what it takes to become a overcomer,a warrior and move on to live the way you really want to? Its up to you.you already took the first steps in posting here ,reaching out ,now all you need to do is accept our help.Maybe others didn’t understand,Im sure someone here will,afterall we all have the same feelings.What is your story? I wont judge or anything I promise

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retrospace18 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Winston Salem, NC, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (8 hours, 1 minute after post)

Excuse me for saying, There is nothing cowardly about suicide. Doesnt make it the best option or really an option at all, but the point being is, that suicide is not cowardly or easy. Ok back to the post.

The last thing you want to do is suicide. Mainly because it IS the end. You have a driving force in you, motivation, that wants you to change. Satisfy that motivation and change!

Write a step by step plan of what you need to be happy and have/do what you want, and do it! the biggest issue with people wanting change, is actually changing.

We are all here for you, and all have eyes and ears ready to listen

ragincajun01210 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (11 hours, 32 minutes after post)

thanks retrospace18….. ur right on the changing part i want to its just gettin the motivation to actually do it, which is kina hard to get when everything is gettin wworse right when i think it will get better….

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (11 hours, 56 minutes after post)

I owe you an apology.I’m sorry for saying you were a coward.You posting and replying,hanging in there proves you are not .Forgive me?

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ragincajun01210 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (12 hours, 6 minutes after post)

no problem Felicity….

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (12 hours, 42 minutes after post)

Thank -you:) so how ya doin’?

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offtheheez4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 months, 3 weeks after post)

im going threw the same thing atm its not the best :/

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webjeff200 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Chicago, IL, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (7 months after post)

I hope this is not to late, but please take the time to read my post you may find something there to make you feel better!

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charlene_ttc4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (10 months, 1 week after post)

Well I hope you haven’t done anything stupid yet. I know you have heard all the stories about other peoples misadventures and how they got through, but most times you don’t want to hear that. What you really need is someone that will listen. I don’t quite know how I stumbled upon your letter but someone or should I say something brought me to you.
I am an older woman in my 50″s and have been there. Thanks to God, I am doing much better for the last 30 years or so. No, this is not a reply to get you to turn to God.
But if you want someone to listen you can email me. Okay? Okay

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skalbrie offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Hi,so your ready to start over.Good.Good 4 you.Open your mind,your heart and ask God to make you anew.Say;Father God I ask for forgiveness in trying to go my own way,I don’t want this life anymore,take it,take it and show me the way Lord, I accept you, your son and your ways.Thank you Lord,In Jesus name -Amen

THERE IS NO GOD

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