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Dealing with Emotions…

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Im not real good at dealing with emotions My wife of a year and a half is oof to Rome, Italy with her Grandma, it was a trip that she was promicing my wife for years and the day came. Now me and our son are at home and feeling kinda empty and sad and a little worried about her traveling so far by herself. I dont know how to deal with my feelings at all… I kinda got them under control after a long long day but. I hope I get real good at it because she will be gone for seventeen days. How much time apart is good time for married couples. Some has too be but is there a good number of days away? And how to deal with the days away is another challenge, Any Ideas……

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helpfulbelle4707 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 minutes after post)

well, the number of days isn’t really a question ( i don’t feel), i think it’s more of what you get from being apart…and 17 days isn’t as long as you think it will be…you have your son…and I’m sure you can talk right? Life will go by, it might be hard, but you’ll get through it just fine :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (32 minutes after post)

How you are feeling is normal! It is ok that you miss her; it shows how much you love her. I agree with helpful you will get through it just fine. I am sure you son is enjoying the extra daddy time and before you know it your wife will be back.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (9 hours after post)

Its driving me insane I dont know if she has made it there or not I cant get ahold of her and she hasnt called to say that she made it there like i asked her to do. We would have been sleeping when she got in but asked her to call anyways so i wouldnt worry about her. And now not getting a call has me just as worried anyways. Im sure she is fine but she was all alone to start the trip in a new country and it just bothers me taht she might of had a hard time fining her parents. Its Draining me out….

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helpfulbelle4707 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (9 hours, 17 minutes after post)

well did she have a cell phone? Not all plans work in foreign countries. Also, if she didn’t have a cell phone she may have had a hard time getting a calling card, etc…she also might have went back and was extremely tired and just crashed…I’m sure she’s fine. If she doesn’t respond by tonight, I might get a little concerned. But I’m sure she’s fine…If you can’t get in touch with her by tonight, go ahead and try to get ahold of her parents if you can…or even this afternoon sometime.

Don’t stress so much so you freak your son out either! You don’t want him to be worried…

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