Love help: My decision today is the basis for my future! - Help.com

florie wrote:
I love what you have said here, and I’m going to read it (and do it) every day!

thank you and read it. Sorry I didn’t know that it was this long.

ok dear

sholva wrote:
I like this, it is a good idea to have a routine that helps you feel good and better yourself.

yes Sholva, sometimes routines are boring but people get addicted to bad stuff, why not addicting yourself to yourself for the good things in life. It is cool really.

Renegade_007 wrote:
Dreamgirl I always enjoy reading what you have to say and I’m very greatful that I have gotten to know you.

I am thankful for that, and with out your input I wouldn’t be this person today. Thank you.

florie wrote:
I fixed the word “basis” in your headline :)

Florie, thanks dear that is a big help. English is my second language and I think I still need to go to school for that.

max_needs wrote:
right on..the opposite of chaos:) you da girl:)

Max yes that is how you mistreat what mistreated you. When life is hard, you have to be simple on yourself. Oh by the way about the help.com people holiday, I have this idea, why don’t we talk about it, place and date, then we all come with the same kind of t-shirt or clothing color (the orange color just like the site) and we don’t have to reveal ourselves we will just get together to that once chosen place and take a group photo like all of us like high school graduation and have the memory of each other even we don’t know who we are to each other. We don’t have to be bothered to know who is who, it will be just simple that we will wonder that we get along even with so many who we think have harsh comments in here.

max_needs wrote:
Exactly, everyone needs someone and everyone needs some private place where they are safe or free from judgement if they are kind:) Congratulations! You have just became a leader:)

Now, it is time to ask around the where the perfect place and time should be…. hehehehe

2greeneyes wrote:
Great positive jump start dreamgirl. Great message. My mother in law is a physo analylis, she said in the morning when she takes her shower she tells herself she loves herself. I love you, I love you, you get to be in the world the whole day!

LOL. Thank you. I am pampering myself with positive things but didn’t yet start saying I love yous to myself heheehehehe I will do that and see how it feels too.

dcb_707 wrote:
that was so inspiring, indeed dreams do come true, dreamgirl!

the basic love, (the first is God) is to really love thyself. the greateast love of all. from there you can become anybody and accomplish anything.

Thank you and I love God too without him I am nothing.

nikko wrote:
Dream girl, i was suicidal as well. I tried it , it was horrid. Sweatheart, the world needs you and I dropped it. Hope you do to. My hand is holding yours. I’ll tell you something, you failed for a reason. the world needs you. :)

Thanks dear.

Bou.L wrote:
I think i’m gonna print this post on a paper.. make a copy or two..
put one in my room, and another in my office.. to see and read everyday, to remember how to be happy again.
Thanks dreamgirl

you are welcome and please do so, it is helpful.

Dots wrote:
Beautiful!
Definitely the best way to live life!

Thanks sweetie.

~lilies~ wrote:
Thank you for this post. Very true.

You will, when you believe. :)

Yes, you will when you believe and you will win life.

Felicity-{KIMKRISS} wrote:
You really outdid yourself,I admire that.Thank YOU,I love positive Posts,I’ve made a few too if your interested.You have a big heart to share this .Thanks again sweetie :)

Thank you dear for your supportive inspiration too.

sansceriph wrote:
Thanks so much for this post Dreamgirl. I had just noticed you here when I went on a little walkabout. Now I’m back and this was the second notice on my list (thanks to Silverwings). You can be everything you want to be Dreamgirl. So can everyone who reads this and takes it to heart. We can together.

Thank you so much, we all can be.

QǺ§Ħ wrote:
Hey this post is really great. I love it. I hope this will help many people who need help.
Nice Work, Dreamgirl :)

Thank you dear, I hope so too.

Ireland-1 wrote:
That was a very interesting post, I hope you don’t mind but I copied and pasted it onto a reply of a suicidal post.

My pleasure if it can help a little bit.

I thank all of you who are very supportive and positive. I am experimenting something and hope it will work and I will post it real soon, Anon might get help from that since none of this post worked out for him.

Anonymous wrote:
no i wont get help from that, i think its a dumb idea which isn’t practical at all, the help we need isn’t from being told to me positive, its to be had from people actually admitting we have a problem which we cant get out of ourselves and giving us help with it which we arent getting out here in the real world

hmmm? I actually don’t know how to answer that. I would love to hear what your problem is and may be I can help you in a way that problem can be specifically solved or others will do. What do you think dear?

forsakentenshi wrote:
Wow, this is awesome and helpful.

I thought so too.

Sanni wrote:
Thank you, I enjoyed reading your post and found it very inspiring. Keep on dreaming. Peace.

I am glad that you enjoyed this… more to come.